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Homo in a Hetero

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SomeNights, Jan 14, 2013.

  1. SomeNights

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    So, I am not sure if this is the right place, but i just wanted to see how many other EC ppl had been in a heterosexual relationship (of any kind) before they realized they were into the same sex!
     
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    Oh yeah. Been there, done that. I had no idea what sexual attraction was so I sought to find it by dating a few guys, but I was 17 before I realized women were way better romantically. (No offense guys!) :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I dunno. Does it count if I was 11?
     
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    yup I said "of any kind"
     
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    I knew I was gay when I had a GF I liked having a GF because I wasn't worried about getting my butt beaten by other guys, at the same time I never had any sexual desires for her.
     
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    Many gay/lesbian EC users have been in heterosexual relationships.
    I actually just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. I promised myself that he would be my last.
     
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    ^ I figured as much, Just thought I'd see how many of us were out there
     
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    I "tried" to be in a relationship with a girl once, does that count? By tried I mean I heard that she liked me, I tried to act interested and she totally bought it but when it came to kissing her it was far too difficult to be convincing so I backed off. After reading a bit on here I think i'll count myself lucky that everything was so apparent to me, even though that experience was painful.
     
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    Yuppers. I was 13.
     
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    I was, it was actually that relationship that confirmed my doubts about my sexuality. It's funny cause we ended up becoming closer as friends than when we were together.
     
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    When I was six, I had a girlfriend. We lasted all the way up until I was eleven. (I wasn't allowed to be near her unless she wanted me near her, and I didn't get to have my own friends. Hers were good enough for both of us.) Around that same time, I realized I didn't like girls.
     
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    I had an online dating thing going with a guy when i was 14. That lasted all of 2 weeks lol! :grin:
     
  14. SomeNights

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    ^ I had one of those....she was psycho!! glad that ended fast
     
  15. i casually dated many boys from when i was 13-15, came out as gay properly at 16. so if those 2 week thingys count then yeah but nothing was serious. i was just trying to make the 'gayness' go away, it didnt work though lol.
     
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    I did but that was when I was trying to convince myself I was into girls.... Didn't work and I felt/feel like shit for going out with her...
     
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    I was in 6 hetero relationships over the course of 6 years before I finally dated a woman.
     
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    Then yes, I was. It ended when she caught me making out with her brother.
     
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    ^ouch. O.O bet that was an awkward situation to be in!
     
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    I'm only sixteen but the exact same thing applies for me!