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How do you de-stress?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tiny Catastrophe, Jan 15, 2013.

  1. Tiny Catastrophe

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    I looked and I didn't see a thread like this. So how do you guys deal with stress? What things do you do to de-stress yourself?

    I read, listen to music, draw, paint and sometimes just drive around.
     
  2. leer

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    music helps , going the gym . depends what kind of day you've had alcohol & other de stress options are further down the list .
     
  3. Lexington

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    Hot baths, hot tea, exercise, curling up in bed with my cats and a good book and classical music.

    Lex
     
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    I don't unfortunately. In past months I dealt with it by cutting and it didn't stop for a long time, even though things became worse. I listen to music I like, maybe watch a film but it doesn't always help.
     
  5. BoiGeorge

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    I listen to music, dance and write songs
     
  6. djt820

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    Usually a nice meal is relaxing. Or maybe a joint. Sometimes both. Music helps too.
     
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    Classical music (both writing it and listening to it), playing video games, taking walks outside.
     
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    Food/the internet.

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    Taking a deep breath.
     
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    I will mostly listen to music or play video games.
     
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    Take photos, go on a journey, listen to music, there's numerous ways I de-stress. Some work better than others, I.e. hobbies - taking photos
     
  12. Tiffany22

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    I hate to admit it, but if it wasn't for Family Guy and American Dad, I don't know what I'd do. Watching any kind of sitcoms help me de-stress at the end of the day. :icon_wink
     
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    Nah, that's pretty cool :slight_smile:, Family Guy's hilarious. I like watching the Simpsons, makes me giggle and cheers me up when I've had a bad day :grin:
     
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    Im not trying to be crude but masturbation helps ALOT
     
  15. Z3ni

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    When I'm stress, I don't even feel like masturbating :lol:

    For me, taking a hot bath is No.1 but living in a flat, the taps run too weak so I don't bother.

    Smoking, eating, and sleeping.

    Or if I had a boyfriend, i'll make him give me a massage :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    This used to be my destress ritual until it started giving me uncontrollable anxiety. Now I usually take a shower, go for a run, or walk. If it's really bad I drink some kava infusions, or kratom.
     
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    Basically this and for me yoga also
     
  18. Tiny Catastrophe

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    Lol I never even thought about that. To each his/her own lol
     
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    Physical activity helps. Sexual activities, with someone or alone. Running, dancing, etc. Listening to music, google searching various things (yeah, I actually do that). Resting. Meditation with calming music on.

    Those are just a few things I do.
     
  20. AaronG

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    drawing normally helps to ease my stress. If i'm in a bad mood I normally like to get up and dance to make myself feel better.