oh for the love of.....help me??

That's an awkward situation to be in. Just try to breathe. (*hug*) Did the person you tell know you aren't completely out yet? If so, that was a sucky thing for them to do. But would it be so bad for your best friend to know? Do you think she would be bothered by it?

 

I see. I guess the only thing you can do if you want to avoid a fallout or added stress at school is keep denying being gay to your friend. Is there a way you can talk to your bi friend about all this? Maybe they'll keep quite if they know what's going on.

And you should consider finding a new best friend. Someone who would hate you for being you isn't much of a friend, y'know?

 

You will have to deal with the fallout as it comes. There would be no set of responses to handle all of the variables which may pop up. Remain calm and focused. You will get through this. It was really bad form for someone to out you. I am so sorry this happened.. Hugs

 

Hey, thats a tough situation. What did she say when she rang you?

 

wow thats harsh i feel for you. i think you should talk to your bi friend to get them to not say anything unil you are ready. and you never know your best friend may still accept you. one of my friends was really homophobic but she said she liked me enough for it not to matter. i hope things will be ok.

 

I have had this happen and I denied it and pointed out I had never hit on them to date, what ugly rumor would change that? Play the injured party and ralley her to your defence. I know it is dishonest but it will keep your friendship together. Or just admit it and let the cards fall where they may! After all what kind of friend would care what you are but their friend. Their may be a great friend waiting in the wings to be your best bud once the role is open. For your bi friend to out you like that, I would question her intent. Sounds to me like she wanted to break you up for some reason. That was not a accident I'll bet. Good luck! June

 

Compassion for others is always a good thing to have. Whatever happens, you'll get through it. Just try to stay calm, you'll be ok (*hug*)

 

Is there a chance you will see the bi person first and explain your situation and the situation they created for you. If so you may be able to come up with a solution to the problem beforehand. Your other friend will certainly make some comment sooner or later tomorrow that will out you if you don't cover yourself now.

 

maybe you can flip this on it's head, use friend A to help tell friend B. Maybe Friend A can be a support system.

 

That's rough. I've had anxiety issues all my life as well so I know how that feels. You'll still be ok. I have faith in you

 

Hopefully it will run it's course without any damage.

 

Well its absolutely fine to deny it, if you get the bi girl on her own perhaps just explain that you are not ready for everyone to know. I would seriously consider telling her the truth, if she is a true friend she will stick by you.

 

This really does make sense as in the future when you do come out your friend will know she has been deceived.