Why is it that in MY opinion bisexual guys are so hot

you like what you like... (?)

 

OMG what is it with people thinking Bi's look at both sexes ALL the time!!! If the one you love is with you then they plan on staying with you!!! Just because we look around doesn't mean a Bi person is thinking sexual thoughts!! They may like a person shoes or purse and are trying to figure out were the person got it! Bi people just can't get a break.

Maybe a Bi male is more sexual to you because they accept people of both genders and are more open perhaps? I have yet to meet a Bi male myself so I wouldn't know personally.

 

A bisexual man is just as likely to cheat on you with a man with a woman :L

 

Now that I can understand and agree with. But being Bi can be confusing even to those who claim they are bi.

 

That's true. It's confusing and doubtful as you sometimes are pressured to choose a side which you simply can't.
Really, if he cheated on you, he's a jerk regardless with whom. It's like saying you could understand someone cheating on you with blond guys but not with brunets. That's what I think.



And I have a thing for bisexual guys, but for me it's because I believe they're likely to understand me.

 

It's fine. Trusting issues are hard to deal with and usually a bit irrational. The person must show this trust and vice-versa.
I have a bit of a funny/cruel story about cheating. My ex-boyfriend (who claims to be 100% straight) cheated on me with another guy (they didn't kiss, but anyway) and after we broke up for different reasons, we were talking about it and he ended up confessing what he had done. At first I thought it was fine, it was another guy after all, but now that I think about it, it doesn't make any difference, he still cheated on me and it hurt the same.

 

Just curious where you are coming from Alex:

So if you were to meet an attractive 'gay' man and later learn he was actually bisexual would he be more attractive then? Would the reverse be true?

I'm just curious

 

A gay man is just as capable at looking at other men. What's the difference? Just because bisexual people are attracted to both genders, there's still the same chance of a gay guy cheating on you.

If you're incapable of trusting the person you love, what's the point in being with them at all? I really feel for bisexual people. I've had many arguments with gay men that seem to think bi people are just gays in denial. Don't judge what you haven't a clue about!

 

Educate yourself, man. Don't be a bigoted ass.

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Thank you! (*hug*)

 

You are really embarrassing yourself here.

Your logic is totally wrong. You can't comprehend a dude you're dating cheating on you with a girl? It's called preference. It's the same logic if a dude cheated on you with another dude that's another ethnicity or has a different hair color. It doesn't matter. They cheated. It doesn't matter with who, at all.

 

I think that what we're trying to say is that it's not because he's bi, he'll cheat on you or cheat on you with a woman. I understand it's harder to accept some things than others, but in this case I don't think it really matters in the end.
And the thing about what had he seen on her is very personal. I can't see what people see on Justin Bieber (not many can as far as I know), and wow I can't see what people see on Angelina Jolie (haters gonna hate), as I think Natalie Portman and Emma Stone are so much prettier. It's really personal what attract each one.

 

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Well I don't quite understand bi sexuality but I'm saying what if I'm dating a bi guy and he cheats on me with a woman? Like I couldn't handle that I just couldn't that's all I have to say about that

Well then you really never will have one. I have dated two bi men in my life and I let them have the don't ask and don't tell rule in our relationships. really without that they would have cheated anyway and at least that way they were more careful of my feelings. Really this topic is silly because bi is not a look or something you can see :bang: really it is a sex prefrence.

That is like me saying my boyfriend is hot because he is straight, when in reality he is hot because HE IS the total package not his sex prefrence. June