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Unsure where to put this. It's about oh this guy is gay or that girl is gay...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Reptillian, Jan 29, 2013.

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  1. Reptillian

    Reptillian
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    Seriously, who gives a shit if someone's gay and what's the point about blogging it or spreading a rumor about it? Back in the day when I claimed the asexual level, people assumed I'm gay and all of that while I never even hinted at my own sexuality. Please, people, just don't be nosy about one's other sexuality. Who seriously cares?

    /ends the totally cool complaint.
     
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  2. ForceAndVerve

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    Asexuality and homosexuality have nothing to do with each other no?

    And yes, I completely agree. Spreading rumours, unfounded or not about someone's sexuality is just out of order.
     
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    It's like if you're not straight, people automatically assume you're gay and however many times you explain to them that there is more than just straight and gay, the don't understand.
     
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    Well, yes and no. Rather yes in my case lol.

    I agree, out of order and uncalled for.


    I often think parents struggle with this particular confusion x.x It also doesn't help that mainstream media only usually displays gay and straight. :/
     
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  5. Reptillian

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    Yep, which is partly why I never even bothered coming out back in the day other than being a very private person. Even if I did form a sexual relationship, he/she is not going to know what I identify as and I'll make it quick to correct her/his assumptions regarding my behaviors and thoughts, but not put on a label. (Implying that I do have one) According to me, as long as the relationship is enjoyable and/or goes along with specific conditions without any ethical concerns, then I wouldn't care who he/she identifies as and I don't think he/she should care who I am on what I identify as if things are running well. That's how I see things.

    Lemme fix this part- asexual level to asexual label, but I think people here already understood that I used the wrong word, but never hurt to fix my error and notify.
     
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