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sexting on the internet

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by jadakiss97, Feb 6, 2013.

  1. jadakiss97

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    Just wondering how all of you felt about sexting on the internet/chat/kik/etc with random people
     
  2. Zaio

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    Personally I'm more of a romantic type, so I would prefer to be able to do my 'sexting' in person. However, if it's with a guy I like, then yeah I might be up for it.

    I think it can go either way really, it just depends who the person is like that you're sexting. I'm not sure I'd ever do it with a random person, as I feel that words coming from someone who doesn't care are usually empty, or derived to give himself pleasure.

    All the best.
     
  3. FallenAngel

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    I used to be into it but as I got older, I just realized how scary it is to have naked pictures of me floating around the internet somewhere. Not the greatest feeling. So I definitely am not "for" it anymore.

    Besides, I'm trying to actually settle down and have a real relationship with someone and I don't think that would help out any.
     
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    I gave it a go when I was 18 but found it a bit boring .
     
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    I have no interest in doing it with random people. I've done it with people I've already bonded with, though. :slight_smile: The Puritan in me feels weird about anyone under 18 doing it.

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    If you saw how many dodgy tube sites there are out there just filled with videos made by creepers sexting with younger people (using fake videos instead of cameras to make them think there was a young person on the other side talking to them)... it would make you think twice.

    Basically, any time you send naked pics or videos to anyone, friend, stranger, or boy/girlfriend you've had for ages... there's always the possibility those pics or vids will find their way onto the internet and once there, are nearly impossible to get removed.

    Even if now you don't think you have any issue with your naked pics being all over the net... you may well feel different when you're 25 and have a good job and suddenly they pop up to someone you didn't expect.

    I'd advise against it for that reason.
     
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    Ignoring my natural reluctance to sext in the first place, I would not sext with random people on the internet. I feel it's just a little ... I don't know, empty.

    Words, pictures, video... none of it appeals to me, especially not with strangers. Long term partner? Perhaps. I'd rather hint at something then do it, than sext about it.
     
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    I personally don't agree with it anymore
     
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    I'd never sext anyway, especially not with a stranger. Dunno, each to their own I guess, but I find it... Weird.
     
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    I think chip sums up my opinion of this quite nicely:

     
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    I think it can be very dangerous, considering that you can't control what the other person does with your images.

    Risky roulette :3
     
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    I have absolutely no idea what you're all talking about :icon_redf
     
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    Taking pictures of yourself naked and/or doing sexual acts and sending them to someone. Usually this is done via text message, thus the term "sexting".
     
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    :lol:
     
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    l have never nor do l plan to sext with anyone lol. But on the internet it used to be just be called "cybering". cybersecks.

    And actually l just recalled that l cybered when l was 11 or so >_>

    um. it does nothing for me.
     
  16. ForceAndVerve

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    Boooo!!!! :tears:
     
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    My mobile phone doesn't have a camera, so not much chance of this anyway lol.
     
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    lol aww.

    ok.

    A/S/L? 8========D
     
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    :roflmao:
     
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