When someone does not reply to your message, it means that he doesn't like you?

Do you mean a text message? If they dont respond call them once and leave a voice mail. If they dont respond dont bother and move on.If by a message like on the internet message them every once in a while and if they dont respond dont bother.There are so many other guys out there for you

 

You're exaggerating, there are plently of reasons as for why someone don't answer you, sometimes it might be because they don't like you, but a lot of times it's due to pure incidental reasons.

 

It doesn't necessarily mean "I don't like you". But it does mean "don't expect to get much response to the messages you send me". I'd focus on people who DO respond to your messages.

Lex

 

im guilty of this all the time. like even texting i dont reply for a good few hours and mostly days lol and i only really look at my phone before i go to sleep, so thats the best time to have any interation with me lol.

but just because someone doesnt respond doesnt mean they dont like you they could be busy. but if they havent replied to a few messages then i would assume they dont want to talk to you but idk. you cant put your happiness into someone else it has to come from within first, then you can be happy with someone too.

 

If I message somebody on at least 2 separate occasions, and they don't respond, I stop trying. If they really want to talk to me, they'll initiate the conversation. If they don't, that's fine. I think the likelihood of them responding lessens with each time I message without getting an answer.

Lex is totally right, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. It just means that responding to your messages is not a top priority. Find somebody that appreciates your time!

 

Im confused cuz a girl that i like and have a flirty relationship with at school doesnt respond to my texts! We get on great at school but she never texts! Whats up with that??

 

I'm not sure what context this is in. If we're talking about dating sites, sometimes it's because the user hasn't logged in for a long time. I've probably missed like three good opportunities from people when I log in a week late to my account.

 

Speaking from personal experience (as in I've once felt like this about people not responding, I overthink it, then I find out all my suspicions were completely unfounded)...

I'd not jump to any conclusions about this. Maybe your friend is having a rough day and just doesn't feel like talking. Maybe he, in general, just isn't a texter. Maybe you overestimate how much you initiate conversations with him and it is getting a little bothersome. It's not like he outright removed you as a Friend, right?

Like I said, speaking from personal experience, I have to strongly advise you not to jump to any conclusions. Else you might end up have negative impressions of your friend that might simply be not true.

Both of you being attracted to men is a poor basis for compatibility.

 

Please don't overreact.
Give him time, sometimes I read messages and just can't find the right answer so I don't answer, sometimes I just don't feel like talking at all.
I don't want to sound mean, but you're right about not perstering him cause it might cause the opposite reaction and he'll find it bothersome. On the other hand, you don't have to ignore him, try talking to him other time, other day without mentioning about the date and if the conversation is good, get more confidence to ask him out again if that's what you want.
I hate when people don't answer me but sometime I don't answer people so I can understand. And you can always talk to people from here to not feel so lonely. We're all here for your entertainment

 

I think you answered why,..he is a procrastinator, nothing personal to you.
Some people respond right away, he sounds like the type who just puts things off, and never gets around to doing what needs to be done IMHO

Oops just read a little bit farther, I still think that way and he may need reminders so he doesn't forget, he sounds like a spontaneous person.

 

Don't put yourself down!!! Beauty is different for everyone. Honestly, if he does it quite often, then he does not sound very considerate. Are you sure you have interest in him, or is it just because h'e fine with you being gay? Or is it because he's beautiful in your eyes?
Because if it is, don't torture yourself over it. You'll meet new people for sure so don't feel depressed over one single person who doesn't mean a lot for you.
Have more faith in yourself.