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justbeingme · 8th Mar 2008, 09:09 PM

So I came out to my school and stuff, then like three weeks later, the idiots in my seminar class questioned my hetreosexuality. Of course, I laugh my ass off for about five minutes, then I tell them what they have missed.

Now, the three guys who sit immediatly next to me are ultra-straight with girlfriends, and recently they..."interrogated" me....on which guy at school I liked, how to do certian gay sexual acts and which I preffered for about 15-25 minutes.

I didnt tell them anything at all, But why are straight men so fasinated with Gay Sex? or is it just me...

8th Mar 2008, 09:14 PM

Probably cause it's so foreign to them. Although not gonna lie, most straight men I know are repulsed by it. But it's like gay people with straight sex we have a sort of, "How would you do that?" mentality about it. So they probably think the same.

justbeingme · 8th Mar 2008, 09:17 PM

yea, probully, And it makes me laugh how when they ask me if I think their hot (even If I do I wouldnt tell) and I say no, they get all offended lol *knee-slap*

iPieman · 8th Mar 2008, 09:18 PM

I think we've all had to go through something similar before.
I used to get regularly interrogated at my old office by the straight guys.
I think it's mainly because they haven't really encountered a gay guy before and they want to get the facts rather than going on what other people say.

Humour them but be careful what you tell them because they could still turn round and use it against you.

Watch out for the "does it hurt" question. That always comes up.

8th Mar 2008, 09:18 PM

Haha you should be like why does it matter if I think you're hot it's not like I have a chance with you lol

Grof142007 · 9th Mar 2008, 12:02 AM

every time i have come to a str8 male they have always ask about it then they get freaked out... Im like i didnt want to tell you but u keep asking so dont get mad at me

bleep · 9th Mar 2008, 03:07 AM

As a joke, some straight guys I know rented out Brokeback Mountain to watch -- they wanted to see "what it was all about". I really wanted to laugh at the questions they asked during the "gay" parts. I can't remember them all right now, but I know one was: "How do they know, which one... you know... gets..." *sighs* Rhetorical questions, of course, because it wasn't like anyone there (that they knew of) would have been able to answer. Shame I was in the closet; answering them would have been so much fun.

Chamber of Life · 9th Mar 2008, 08:31 AM

I have one of these stories.
So I tell two of my straight guy friends that I was guy. I think their both pretty good looking by the way. Anywho.... So one of them asked me do i think he's hot. My answer was HELL NO! (I wasn’t telling them the truth) But he got really offended and was asking me "Why? Am I not your type?" I told him no not really. Then he asked me "what is your type" My response was " Not you." This guy then wanted me to point out all of his flaws. So I did. Ever since then he has been strange. All the flaws I pointed out he doesn’t do them anymore.

iPieman · 9th Mar 2008, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by bleep

"How do they know, which one... you know... gets..."

That's another one I used to get as well xD

9th Mar 2008, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Chamber of Life

I have one of these stories.
So I tell two of my straight guy friends that I was guy. I think their both pretty good looking by the way. Anywho.... So one of them asked me do i think he's hot. My answer was HELL NO! (I wasn’t telling them the truth) But he got really offended and was asking me "Why? Am I not your type?" I told him no not really. Then he asked me "what is your type" My response was " Not you." This guy then wanted me to point out all of his flaws. So I did. Ever since then he has been strange. All the flaws I pointed out he doesn’t do them anymore.

Haha omg thats hilarious

most straight guys get offended if you don't fancy them XD

Chamber of Life · 9th Mar 2008, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ThatCrazyThang

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Originally Posted by Chamber of Life

I have one of these stories.
So I tell two of my straight guy friends that I was guy. I think their both pretty good looking by the way. Anywho.... So one of them asked me do i think he's hot. My answer was HELL NO! (I wasn’t telling them the truth) But he got really offended and was asking me "Why? Am I not your type?" I told him no not really. Then he asked me "what is your type" My response was " Not you." This guy then wanted me to point out all of his flaws. So I did. Ever since then he has been strange. All the flaws I pointed out he doesn’t do them anymore.

Haha omg thats hilarious

most straight guys get offended if you don't fancy them XD

LOL! I know its crazy if your so damn straight to ask me if I think your hot. That gets annoying after awhile.

Alexander · 9th Mar 2008, 09:58 AM

I'm just like.... I like boys the same way you like girls, except that girls are less hot. Do YOU find every girl attractive?

8th Mar 2008, 09:09 PM	#1
justbeingme Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Nearish Wichita, Kansas Age: 19 Posts: 66 Join Date: Mar 2008	Damn Those Straight Hot Men... So I came out to my school and stuff, then like three weeks later, the idiots in my seminar class questioned my hetreosexuality. Of course, I laugh my ass off for about five minutes, then I tell them what they have missed. Now, the three guys who sit immediatly next to me are ultra-straight with girlfriends, and recently they..."interrogated" me....on which guy at school I liked, how to do certian gay sexual acts and which I preffered for about 15-25 minutes. I didnt tell them anything at all, But why are straight men so fasinated with Gay Sex? or is it just me...

8th Mar 2008, 09:14 PM	#2
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... Probably cause it's so foreign to them. Although not gonna lie, most straight men I know are repulsed by it. But it's like gay people with straight sex we have a sort of, "How would you do that?" mentality about it. So they probably think the same.

8th Mar 2008, 09:17 PM	#3
justbeingme Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Nearish Wichita, Kansas Age: 19 Posts: 66 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... yea, probully, And it makes me laugh how when they ask me if I think their hot (even If I do I wouldnt tell) and I say no, they get all offended lol knee-slap

8th Mar 2008, 09:18 PM	#4
iPieman He's back! Full Member Gender: I'm a Man, man Orientation: Closet hetrosexual waiting to come in. Out Status: Out to everyone Location: London, England Age: 26 Posts: 255 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... I think we've all had to go through something similar before. I used to get regularly interrogated at my old office by the straight guys. I think it's mainly because they haven't really encountered a gay guy before and they want to get the facts rather than going on what other people say. Humour them but be careful what you tell them because they could still turn round and use it against you. Watch out for the "does it hurt" question. That always comes up. __________________ "I like my beers cold and my Homosexuals FLAMING!" Walrus & S Club Pride

8th Mar 2008, 09:18 PM	#5
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... Haha you should be like why does it matter if I think you're hot it's not like I have a chance with you lol

9th Mar 2008, 12:02 AM	#6
Grof142007 Dreamer of EC Merchandise Full Member Gender: Sexy Male Orientation: King of Homosexuals Out Status: Openly Gay Location: High Point,North Carolina Age: 22 Posts: 1,652 Join Date: Apr 2007	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... every time i have come to a str8 male they have always ask about it then they get freaked out... Im like i didnt want to tell you but u keep asking so dont get mad at me __________________ The name is Kevin Dreamer of EC Merchandise EmptyClosets Shop

9th Mar 2008, 03:07 AM	#7
bleep EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Queensland, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 305 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... As a joke, some straight guys I know rented out Brokeback Mountain to watch -- they wanted to see "what it was all about". I really wanted to laugh at the questions they asked during the "gay" parts. I can't remember them all right now, but I know one was: "How do they know, which one... you know... gets..." sighs Rhetorical questions, of course, because it wasn't like anyone there (that they knew of) would have been able to answer. Shame I was in the closet; answering them would have been so much fun. __________________ "What do you mean you don't believe in homosexuality? It's not like the Easter Bunny; your belief isn't necessary." ~ Lea DeLaria

9th Mar 2008, 08:31 AM	#8
Chamber of Life In my Naughty Tree!!! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most of my friends. Location: Ohio, USA Age: 21 Posts: 288 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... I have one of these stories. So I tell two of my straight guy friends that I was guy. I think their both pretty good looking by the way. Anywho.... So one of them asked me do i think he's hot. My answer was HELL NO! (I wasn’t telling them the truth) But he got really offended and was asking me "Why? Am I not your type?" I told him no not really. Then he asked me "what is your type" My response was " Not you." This guy then wanted me to point out all of his flaws. So I did. Ever since then he has been strange. All the flaws I pointed out he doesn’t do them anymore.

9th Mar 2008, 09:58 AM	#12
Alexander EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Red Hook NY Age: 19 Posts: 2,736 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Damn Those Straight Hot Men... I'm just like.... I like boys the same way you like girls, except that girls are less hot. Do YOU find every girl attractive?

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