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Are you attracted to people who look like you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Psychedelic Bookmarks, Mar 9, 2008.

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Can you be attracted to people who look like you?

  1. Yes, sometimes

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  2. No, I'm not attracted to my own style

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  3. No, being with someone the same as me is a turn off

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  4. No, because both of the above ^

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  1. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    Inspired by the recent Stephen Fry video.

    Personally, I can be attracted to people similar to myself.
     
  2. SadConfusedBandGeek

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    Haha same here, because i dress and try to look like, what i would find attractive. So theoretically, if someoen looked like me, i would find them attractive hehe
     
  3. Hugh

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    WHAT????? I'd have to be nuts!!!
     
  4. Ty

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    I myself, my personality and looks etc isn't what I find attractive in a partner which makes me a bit self conscious because i'd like to BE what I desire if you know what I mean... bleh
     
  5. sngl

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    Lol, absolutely not!

    I don't think I would go out with myself :lol: But still, I'd like to be something similar to what I desire though
     
  6. IHeartDisney

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    It sounds wierd but yes I am.
     
  7. Hepcat

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    Nope, not at all. I would never go out with anyone who looked like me. I hate the way I look.
     
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    i dunno, i always see the guys i like as better than me, so if i see a guy the way i see myself.
    i'd have to say no.
     
  9. Owen

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    It actually happened to me before. There's a guy at my school who looks almost exactly like me, and I thought he was cute.
     
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    Hm, well I'm not my type at all, so no.

    lol it kind of hurts self-esteem a little bit.
     
  11. I'd say that as often as not, I'm attracted to people like me.
     
  12. Defender

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    Yep, most times.
     
  13. sexyalex

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    please, so not the drama :dry: where is the fun in that?

    i rather different style, different culture different backgrounds...etc. that way i am never bored in or out the bedroom. :wink:
     
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    If he was as tall or taller, had a nice face and was smart, yes! I'm still turned on by some tall women, too..
     
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    Hahah, when my niece and i went to disneyland, there was this gay couple and, looking back on it, they did look similar. My niece (10 years old) was like "why do all gay couples look alike?" I though it was just her being silly but, apparently this is somewhat well-thought??

    It's kind of weird, I'm really attracted to lean/muscly latino guys.. but it's kind of hard to imagine myself in a relationship with one. Not that I dislike them, but it's just easier to see myself with a skinny white guy (like me), who I am normally lukewarm-attracted to.

    I doubt that made any sense, but ,.,.yeah
     
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    hahaha that made me laugh =D dont know why lol
     
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    No, I don't think I'd like to date someone like myself. I would want my girlfriend to be laid-back like me and open-minded, but that's about all. I tend to like girls that don't look like me and are girly (I tend to be more masculine). I'd also like someone who is funny and can off set my seriousness, you know, compliment me.
     
  18. Words

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    Yeah I sorta get this sometimes.

    But personality wise, no way! They'd need to be different, yet alike.
     
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    NO WAY,
    I wouldnt be attracted to my self. First off I wouldnt like my personality nor the way I dressed. I like the way I dress but not who I date. It would also be strange dating some one like myself. So I would have to say no.
     
  20. smilealways

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    i wouldnt mind having a relationship with a clone of myself.










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