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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by nar1207, Feb 14, 2013.

  1. nar1207

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    Hey guys! My name is Nathan and im 14 years old. I have been getting bullied for 7 years now non stop. Anyone else get bullied? If so any tips?
     
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    I did. I quit school because of it, but I wouldn't advise that. You'll soon be out of school and in college with people that are way more open-minded.

    Just make sure you have a support network (tell somebody) and keep strong.
     
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    Yeah but im only in 7th grade. I cant just quit school. I wish I could. But thanks for the advise
     
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    Sorry, I meant wouldn't advise that!

    Just focus on getting good grades and living the life you deserve once school is over.
     
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    Oh. Ok gotcha! And while im talking to you, do you know why Im not allowed to PM people?
     
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    You have to become a full-member. You can apply for that once you have been here for at least two weeks and have made at least 50 posts. :slight_smile:
     
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    Ok thank you so much! :icon_bigg Do you have any advise on how to figure on how to know if your gay or straight?
     
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    I used to be bullied (though not viciously), but ever since I came out, the bullying stopped! When I was bullied, I just tried to kill them with my kindness.
     
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    Well your a girl. Im a guy. Its a guy bullying me. Guys cant hit girls so its easier for you. This kid could hit me
     
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    I got bullied in 7th grade also, luckily it was only by one person. Lewissss is right, focus on school and stay strong through it, you will be okay. And if it makes you feel any better, my bully didn't even make it through high school, last I heard he lives in a trailer park now. This sort of thing has a way of working itself out, I promise, focus on school and you will come out ahead of them.
     
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    Girls do a lot of emotional bullying, which can be even more painful than a punch in the face. But I do know many people who think a broken arm is worse than a broken mind.

    I've been hit by guys before (because they don't realize that I'm a girl).
     
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    Yeah but the thing is, when me and him was in 3rd grade we were best friends. Then he asked me to makeout, so we did. But he was dating a girl and I asked a girl out that day waiting for the answer. So me and him kissed for about 10 minutes, then we french kissed. Then we just took our shirts off and made out. The next day the girl I asked out said yes. So I was IAR with a girl. But me and the kid who bullys me made out again that day after school. The same happened for about 2 weeks then he just thought it was gross and never did it again. Now he just bullys me senseless! It f****** sucks! Please help me guys!

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    True that.
     
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    Ouch, that is a tough situation bud. Do any teachers know he is bullying you? You can always tell them
     
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    *hug*

    focus on school. maybe people will soon see you as the smart kids since nowadays smart people don't get bullied as much :slight_smile: :3 I mean, who makes iphones? who discover treatment for illnesses?
     
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    Yes they do. But they do NOTHING
     
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    Wow buddy, that's wrong. I haven't been in the middle school mind set in a long time but if I had the kind of info on him that you do then you could say you would tell people about it if he doesn't leave you alone.

    -I know rumor spreading and blackmail is wrong but it could be enough to make him stop.
     
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    Yeah it sucks
     
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    Have you told your parents that you are being bullied?
     
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    Yes they know. They call the school all the time and the school dose nothing.
     
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    That is terrible