So I guess I generally dress pretty "gay" but it always makes me laugh when people tell me that I look especially gay one day over another. I just kind of roll my eyes and move on. Anybody else get told they look gay? Does it bother you?
once in a blue moon lol. no it doesnt bother me, theyre just stating that i look different to my normal femme way of dressing lol.
It bothers me to a degree because telling someone they " look " or " dress gay " is so dumb. Just because I or someone else wears clothing that isn't considered normal, straight or whatever we're dressing gay? I know straight guys that have other straight guys call them " gay " cause they wear skinny jeans, etc when they are just reflecting their own personal style! People need to stop the judging and hating and start the acceptance.
It does not bother me at all, I usually say thanks it must be working. Sometimes my straight friends will tell me I look f***able, not exactly sure what that means, but I go with it.
