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I think I like a guy! What do I do?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by nar1207, Feb 15, 2013.

  1. nar1207

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    Ok so theres this guy I may like. Me and him have been friends for about a month now and I dont know what to do. I cant find anything to talk about with him now. What should I do?
     
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    Does he know you like guys?
     
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    I dont even know if I like guys
     
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    the fact that your just curious kind of says your interested in him ''sorry if am wrong there''.Anyway the guy who may like you what have you talked about before maybe its sports , music you like .anything like that is like a middle ground ie something you both agree on even being at the same school is a starting point being young your still asking questions i did all the time but about 90% sure i was gay .
     
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    lol no he plays around alot
     
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    If anyone elso would reply that would be great because this is a BIG situation here
     
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    Well the fact you even think you like a guy, tells me you like guys. I just don't think you're ready to admit it yet. I mean you wouldn't be here otherwise.

    At your age I would just stick to keeping it a crush, telling a guy you like them at your age would probably cause them to freak out a little.
     
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    gotcha. but im just so confused
     
  9. Kyle2Kylie

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    A month is a super short time, let the friendship grow a bit and maybe you'll understand yourself more and be able to handle it better!
     
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    but someone else told me to tell him that i like him
     
  11. Kyle2Kylie

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    Do you know how he feels about you?
     
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    It really depends on your situation and how comfortable the two of you are as friends. Personally I agree with the people that have said give the friendship time first.
     
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    idk if hes gay
     
  14. Kyle2Kylie

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    Do you know if your gay?
     
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    hell to the no
     
  16. Kyle2Kylie

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    Then until you know for sure I would let time work things out
     
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    ok
     
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    And how wise is this someone else? If you've only known him for a month and don't even know what being gay feels like, I would definitely hold off. Until you can see yourself in a legit relationship with a guy, I'd not tell him you like him.

    On the other hand, if you get to trusting him really well, you could say you're questioning your sexuality. It might lead to a nice discussion. :slight_smile:
     
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    PANIC! Just kidding, you should probably just keep it bottled up inside you, and never tell anyone the truth, and let it slowly rot away your heart and soul until your just an empty shell like me.


    I'm really really not qualified to give advice. I also forgot to take my medication today. I'm serious.