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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by nar1207, Feb 15, 2013.

  1. nar1207

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    Weird topic but how do you know that your gay? I have been going through a phase that I like a guy that I have been good friends with for like a month now. But I also like a girl. Any tips?
     
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    At your age don't worry about the actual label, just go with what feels right to you!
     
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    But I dont know what feel right
     
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    hm....okay then experiment. Quite honestly at your age I was really naive and didn't know what "gay" was...I just kinda had fun with my best friend :icon_redf

    Just be you and it'll come to you.
     
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    I mean the kid that bullys me in 3rd grade me and him madeout then 2 weeks after he told me he didnt wanna do it anymore because he thought it was gross. then the bullying started. when this was going on me and him were dating a girl
     
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    whoa! okay now back up...first of all bully = not okay. Tell me more about this (how bad, what does he do, etc.)

    Overall that is a tough situation and is hard to gauge. He may have been experimenting and found he doesn't like guys or does and is repressing it. However, what he does has nothing to do with whether or or not you like guys.

    Oh and btw just a side note making out with a guy while dating a girl is still cheating :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    He calles me names, tells me i should kill myself, i was a mistake, i shoud have never been born, trips me. This has been going on for 4 years non stop and he lives right behind me so im never safe. he bullys me everyday.
    Sad thing is: hes a good kisser and bairly kinda cute.

    And i know it was cheating
     
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    Okay, my friend that is called an asshole and you really shouldn't put up with it or take that. I know you really don't want to at your age, but I'd definitely tell someone that he is picking on you. No one should have to deal with that.

    Anyway back to your original post. it's okay to make mistakes and question everything. That's the whole point of being a teenager! (and most of a college student as well)

    Just making sure :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    but its like 10 people bullying me
     
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    Bullying = Not cool

    sounds to me like you should tell someone. The numbers don't matter one person or a thousand it's still wrong.
     
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    I have told the teacher do nothing. My parents have called the school the still do nothing. we called the police they still do nothing but whenever the kid who bullys me tells on me i get a reffural
     
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    hm... idk then. That is not cool at all. Idk, most of the bullies i've encountered were just looking for a "rise". I stopped giving them that rise and they went away. I can say it does get better. Since I've been out of high school I haven't had to deal with any of that crap (thank god)
     
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    thanks for the help
     
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    I know I'm gay because guys give me erections. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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