stupid question time. is there anything i can do to stop girls who arent over their exs coming on to me? i dont like many people (in that way) but the past 6 months i met a girl and she was cute and everything and we got on well, then all of a sudden she gets back into a relationship with her ex after saying she liked me and stuff and i said feelings were reciprocated. i wasnt expecting her to be in a relationship with me at all soon but i thought it was on the cards in the distant future... obv not. then last month it happened again, with another girl! whhhhaaaaat. it also happened a few years ago aswell again with a diff girl. i must be doing something wrong, but what? also if it matters after those girls did that i just didnt bother with the friendship either as i felt i was lead on... and a little hurt. also these girls didnt speak of their exs hardly to me, once or twice briefly but nothing that would raise alarm bells that they werent over that person :| what do i do wrong?