stop pushing it

Im Sorry Buddy .. Thats Messed Up .. But I Do The Same At A Hot Guy On The Tv Hahah =] Dont Worry ... You Can Talk To Me About Anything .. Ok =]

 

No offence but your parents must have some serious issues if you're 13 and they want you to hop into bed with some chick...

I think you should just tell then that you're not ready for that kind of thing, and that most people don't even *think* about relationships, let alone hopping into bed, until they're much older.

 

I was living with my relatives one time and was watching Coronation Street. This gay person tried to kiss the other guy and when I saw that I went all red lol.
anyway they sort of said things like what your parents said and yea, i just change subject when they say stuff.

 

Personally I'd like to have parents like that, would suit my personality.

However, for you that is a bad thing. Especially considering your age. If you think you have enough courage to stick up for yourself you should tell them that you are only 13 and its going to be a long time till you have a relationship with someone.

 

Reminds me of my mom *sigh* she even tried to set me up at one point... beware, ur parents might do that >_<

 

My mother does that. She points out guys my age she thinks are "cute" and trys to girltalk with me. I don't even want to go into her sex talks. :::shudder::: If there were ever a chance that I could have been straight, it evaporated right then and there. Both of my parents have been trying to hook me up with one of my brother's friends.

She started when I was about 16 though, so you have a leg up on me there. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I know how it feels when you get the feeling that your own family doesn't accept you for who you are (I think here we've all experienced that a little though). You might not feel ready to come out to them yet, so just tell them that their comments make you uncomfortable because you're young and not yet ready for dating.

 

I know what you mean...my dad does things like that sometimes, and has for the past 3+ years. Every time he brings up a topic like that, I just ignore him...but yea, you should tell your parents that you're still young and dont want a relationship yet, if you dont want to come out to them.

 

I totally agree! What kind of parent encourages their child to have sex at 13? Geez! :tantrum:

 

maybe you parents already know that you are gay

anyway, noones perfect and we all have to deal with different people.
some people just dont learn or change. like me grandad:eek:
but you can always try to change them:icon_bigg

 

sorry to hear that, but don't worry, i go through the same thing with my dad, and when he starts with that i just look at him and laugh and turn away, then change the subject...good luck though!