Do you think it is slutty to makeout with random people at the club?

Depends on what you classify as a good time. A lot of people would call that slutty, and there are just as many people who would think that's acceptable. Odds are the people who think it's acceptable are the ones going to the same clubs you are.

But if it makes you happy and you aren't hurting anybody else in the process, have at it.

Me? I don't go to clubs for exactly that reason.

 

Although I wouldn't do anything similar (I have a thing about personal space.)

I don't think it makes you slutty, no. The only problem I can see is that you wouldn't know where another guys's mouth has been. That hardly crosses the mind when harmless fun is ensuing though.

 

If a stranger makes out with you in a club, there's a good chance that he/she has already made out with several other people that night. Hygienically, not my scene.

 

if I do get lucky in the club ''it dont happen often BTW'' am not really one for making out in the club usually outside waiting for a taxi or on the train home dont think am all that slutty btw .

 

Well are you both single?
No one can tell you what to do if you're single, so get your kicks while you are! Please be safe though.

On a side note: I've been to the gay club three times and nothing like that has happened to me.... :eek:

 

Not slutty if you're single... as long as you dont do anything risky or stupid. Making out is awesome.

 

Like others here, it's not my thing, but I'm not going to judge somebody else for doing it. As long as you're being safe and respectful of others (both the person you're making out with and those around you), I don't really see any problem with it. If you're having fun, who am I to stop you?

 

Yes, making out with strangers could be consider slutty....and there is nothing wrong with that either

Think about it. What is being a slut? Is it someone who has sex before marriage? Someone who has more sex than other people? Someone who kisses random people? Someone who just thinks about kissing random people or having sex with them?

If you are enjoying and you aren't harming anyone (without their consent), then enjoy it. Just keep in mind the risks of kissing complete strangers. Nothing life threatening, but they are there

 

"Slut" is one of those meaningless words that just means "has more sex/does more sex-related stuff than I think is appropriate."

 

Sluts are the people who aren't safe with their actions.

To me, I wouldn't want to make out with random people. If that is a good time to you, by all means, DO IT! Only if you are single though. That would hurt your partner big time if you were in a relationship, and you were making out with a bunch of random people.

 

I can't help myself. hopefully this doesn't derail the thread too much xD

Not true. At all. Who is a bigger slut, the person who has unprotected sex once or the person who has safer sex multiple times? The person who drinks and drives or the guy making out with strangers?

Lets say what we really mean

 

Sorry. I meant sexual actions. For example, unprotected sex multiple times with strangers.
I thought people might take it that way. Sorry for not being clear, but I see your point.

The person who drinks and drives would be the bigger slut in your example.

 

People need to go out there and do this: Google -> "why slut shaming is bad." Press enter. Become enlightened.

 

That seems kinda slutty to me. But hey whatever floats your boat

 

Hell no YOLO when I start going to gay clubs next year I can't wait to have a "good time"

 

"Slut" is simply a derogatory buzzword that just indicates the individual using it is closed minded when it comes to sexual issues and too bogged down in their perception of "cultural norms" or their arbitrary subjective idea of what is "ok" to do sexually to be able to accept that there is in fact nothing wrong with what they dub "being slutty."

Edit: I forgot to also note that slut-shaming is quite bigoted.

 

Well I do think that's a little slutty. But I'm not at all saying being slutty is a bad thing.

 

So far, I'm counting five people questioning the very premise behind this "slutty" behavior as problematic thing...

 

Like others have said, slut is totally a subjective and meaningless word. It's a word used for someone that's having more sex than you're having. Sort of like how when you're driving, everyone going slower than you is an old man and everyone driving faster than you is a maniac. Slut-shaming really isn't my thing. Do whatever you want as long as you're not reckless about it.