im not. i love being legalized on paper as married to a guy. but i found out that many gays are marriage-phobics (i dont know what to call that one:lol. maybe i wanna be married because my family is happy when theyre married. even tho its just a status, i would love one. but if i cant, im wouldnt throw a tantrum.
While I was still in denial and thinking that I'm straight, I had always imagined that eventually I would get married to a woman and have kids. Though I never really wanted to do that...I just thought that I probably would, because everybody does that :lol: And I'm quite terrible with kids, but maybe I still want some with a partner who's better with them...but I don't know, I'm not really concerned with this right now. And about marriage with another guy: I'm not really scared of it, but it's not like one of my biggest dreams or anything. I'll just wait and see what the futute holds lol
Haha I'm not gonna lie I am kind of afraid of marriage. Idk I think there's so many people out there I wouldn't even think about settling down for a long long time.
i can't say I'm affraid of it, I haven't actually given it much thought but I think I'd quite like to settle down with a guy at some point.
I'm not afraid of them, but I am not really mad about the idea of them either. If whoever i was with wanted it then i wouldn't say no, but it wouldn't be a priority for me to get married.
hahah. gay marriage in the USA? doesnt exist, so im not afraid. heheh. but i would love to get married someday. :] gotta love the romance of it all.
hmm, well I'm not really afraid of it, but I feel like I wouldn't want to be "married" to a guy, idk... If a guy I was with for a long time wanted one, I guess I would do it but, meh I would just like settling with someone, I guess I don't really feel the need to be married
I'm more scared of being single for the rest of my life then anything. But the thought of being in a serious relationship does scare me. I never had a boyfriend before just a special friend. So when i do find a boyfriend im just scared about impressing him and stuff. Not to be annoying stuff like that
I am constantly telling myself that I am not afraid to get married but honestly I think I truly am. I don't know I mean just the thought becomes exciting, the thought of belonging to someone and having someone belong to me, it just makes me feel all happy and special.. But seeing some of my friends married parents and stuff, them being all unhappy, it just scares me in a way. But I will be in denial about that until the day I die.. I really want to get married!! Hehe :help:
I think that marriage is a beautiful thing which should be able to be celebrated by any two people who are in love with each other. Even if that marriage does not last, it is still the joining of two people's love which I think is one of the most important things that a human can do.
Well one of my future plans is to adopt , so marrige/domestic partnership is a must before im adopting.
I'm definitely not scared of marriage to a guy. I think that marriage really brings together a relationship - it really seals the deal. Plus it's uber romantic
No, I'm going to get married some day. If not for the romantic aspect, then for those bajillion rights I get.
lol. So true. But if gay marriage isn't looked down on, I'd be scared as hell. Commitment is just a scary thought for me. Why couldn't we just be, you know, "friends with benefits?"
I definitely want to get married to a lovely woman one day. I know my family would feel better about it too, half of them think that being gay = no marriage at all, so it might quell some of their qualms. Oooh... alliteration.
Of course not! Marriage can seem frightening when it challenges you single-ness freedom. But if I were with someone I loved, then marriage would mean the ultimate step in our relationship. To be able to stablish ourselves in front of society, in front of everyone, is like a dream come true. Plus it's effing romantic :icon_bigg
