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Teen Girls Wanting To Become Mothers

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BoiGeorge, Mar 2, 2013.

  1. BoiGeorge

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    I have found that I have recently become very clucky and broody when it comes to little children and babies! I have found myself thinking, 'I would love to have a baby!' Do any other teen girls desperately want a baby?! I heard on the Tyra Banks Show that 1 in 5 teen girls actually want to become a teen mum! Are there any other teen girls (or boys) who are dying to have a baby?! Of course I wouldn't actually consider getting pregnant at 18, seeing as I'm still in school and everything, but I'm interested in hearing others' opinions on this.
     
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    I think that my mom would literally beat me if I got a girl pregnant but I don't really want one anyway.
     
  3. Oddish

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    Nope, no thank you.
    Even though some babies are cute, I wouldn't even dare at this age. I've seen lasses from school who were a few years ahead of me, get pregnant, drop out, and daddy turns into a runner. It's sad seeing them pretty much lose most of their opportunities in life all due to a teen pregnancy.

    I don't really want kids so even if I could be financially stable and things when it came to having a child, I'd still say no. Way too much of a hassle.
     
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    My high school (really my entire county) has a high teen pregnancy rate. I have a lot of friends that are teen moms. I would not wish what they have gone through on anybody. There were so many people that got pregnant in my high school that they ended up making a class for pregnant students. They even had a daycare there.

    I wouldn't have had a child when I was a teenager. I don't want children now. Maybe someday I'll adopt children.
     
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    Having a baby is the biggest commitment a person can ever make. They change and dominate your life far more than you can ever imagine. I wasn't at all bothered up until I was 24, then I decided I wanted a child. He is 5 now and in his first year of school. Only now am I able to go to college and have a bit of a life of my own. Nights out are still largely off the cards though. Trust me on this one, live a bit of your own life before you bring another one into the world, because once you have a child, everything, and I mean absolutely everything changes.
     
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    I'm broody about ever other week. Usually because my best friend is, and she has to come over and talk about being broody, and it throws me into a broody fit too. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I wanted a baby from the time that I was about 11. I remember lying in bed at maybe 13-14 and trying to will myself pregnant somehow. If I'd had someone to have sex with I probably would have gone through with it.

    I still really want a baby, but I'm able to recognise now that I'm not stable enough yet. I've also realized that the times I really want one right NOW I'm usually not doing well emotionally. I'm not sure what the connection is, or why my brain thinks it's a good idea for a depressed person to have a child...
     
  8. from the ages of 12-15 i really wanted a baby.
    not too sure why. i was just set on it. i had it planned what i would do to my room for the baby and everything the only thing i didnt have planned was the financial side being still in high school.

    so glad i didnt go through with it though.
    my mum would of thrown me out and i would be stuck with a child at this age who would now be 5/6 years old.... nah. not for me. i want to foster when im older first before i have children (if i ever do).

    99% of my friends have children at this age though some had them as young as 14. its not for me though. im out living my life and having fun/travelling while they are at home looking after a baby. only one or two of my friends who are girls dont have them, i see those an awful lot. hardly ever see my friends who have children now but they all hang out together loads as young mums.

    i think its all to do with hormones maybe causing your want for a baby?
    i know everyones hormones are all over the place up till 20's.