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gay or lesbian but attracted to the opposite sex mentally

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Chamber of Life, Mar 16, 2008.

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  1. Chamber of Life

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    Well I have a problem... well I dont know if it's a problem.

    So I have a friend who is a girl and we're really close. But I think mentally I'm attracted to her. Physical, no because I'm gay. It seems really weird. Like if her mind was in a male's body I would totally be so flipping excited. Mentally I'm soooo attrached to her and I dont know what to do? So, have you guys ever been attrached the opposite sex.
     
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  2. Jace

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    Like that, yes lots of times, I guess I just haven't found the right GUY yet, hell I haven't even found a GAY guy yet lol, a gay guy would be great haha
     
    #2 Jace, Mar 21, 2008
  3. Several

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    I've experience that one time. I know, it's sooo weird. I mean, i AM gay so I should be attracted to girls, but this particular girl was cute and more! I've even asked her out on a friend-date.
     
    #3 Several, Mar 22, 2008
  4. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    When I was at primary school (aged about 8) I had a friend-boy who I really liked. I had a sort of boy-crush on him. People used to say that we were going out and stuff (like little kids do). I suppose I would say i had a mental crush on him. He was fun :grin:
     
    #4 Psychedelic Bookmarks, Mar 22, 2008
  5. Owen

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    That's happened to me before, too. There was this girl who I was a peer mentor for when she came to our school, and after we got to know each other, I became mentally attracted to her. Then it got complicated, and it slowly faded away.
     
    #5 Owen, Mar 22, 2008
  6. Connor

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    This is called being "homoflexible", perfectly normal.
     
    #6 Connor, Mar 22, 2008
  7. crystaltriforce

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    it could be sexual tension. :shrug:
     
    #7 crystaltriforce, Dec 13, 2008
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