maybe write some things down you want to tell her did you and your ex part on good terms maybe you need to get a few things of your chest so writing it down first would help .
Probe her incessantly on her political and religious beliefs and how she's doing sexually. Those conversations always make people feel comfortable.
I will throw out there that to some degree, conversation between two friends should happen somewhat naturally. There are exceptions of course, but if you're always struggling to hold a conversation with her, perhaps you're trying to force a relationship that doesn't need to be there? Just some food for thought.
well thats true. i will agree on that but actually, i never can act myself around her on camera, like with my friends at school, i naturally pretend and same goes with her even if she's on a screen, she makes me nervous, she's my ex....she never knows what to say to me either....and its not that we struggle to hold a conversation together, its we dont knows how to start a conversation....or how to start a new one like....its easy for us to say hello and hard for us to say goodbye
