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So done with that friendship! DONE

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alexander69, Mar 8, 2013.

  1. Alexander69

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    So I made a post before about my friend going out with this guy I like even though he's straight and how she gave him a bi and try f**ked right away she went in to detail. Anyways she just took pics of her having sex with him and sent them to me. I'm shocked disgusted and so hurt I told her I'm gone DONE!
     
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    I'm sorry Alexander. It doesn't sound like you have the best of friends. Hopefully as you continue to work on yourself, you'll attract healthier, more thoughtful people to you :slight_smile:
     
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    That is a bitch move and a desperate cry for attention by someone who is incredibly insecure with themselves.

    Good for you for bailing. Nobody deserves friends like that.
     
  4. This seems pretty insane to me. I can't really give a proper opinion 'cause I don't know you or this girl, but if it were me - good riddance.
     
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    Ewww, who does that?! Who the hell is busy taking pictures while having sex and then sends them to a friend, who for sure doesn't wanna see that? With the intention of hurting him? That's definitely not a friend... The things people do... :icon_eek:

    Guess you're definitely better off without her...

    Hope you'll find a better friend instead who treats you like a friend should! :slight_smile:
     
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    That's terrible! She sounds like a real "you know what." Why on earth would she send you pictures of that? Honestly it sounds like the beginnings of life of cheap porno and drugs for her. Glad you ended that friendship it sounds horrible, but we're here to be your friends! (&&&)
     
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    Yes, Alexander, I think it's a good idea for you to set boundaries and not continue to be friends with people who deliberately hurt you. As Chip was saying, I think that you are working a lot right now on your own issues, and in the future you will form relationships with healthier people who will be kinder to you.
     
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    I know thank you everyone it was a bitch move from her like who does that? I was like I'm gone DONE and she is still texting me trying to say sorry I haven't replied because if you do that you are not sorry for it like you took the time to take them and then send them so you are not sorry. I need new good friends I'm so sick of fake people who try to be cool still HIGH SCHOOL is done OVER grow up life isn't about being perceived as "cool" it's about being happy with your self and what you do.
     
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    That's fucked up on so many levels
     
  10. Eh, people come and go when you're a teenager. That girl just seems to be superficial as far as I can tell. It seems to me that what you two have is a frienship based on gaining status or reputation amongst each other.I may be wrong but it is the sort of thing we see in our generation.
    Have you ever tried to make friends with people from different backgrounds?
    By that I mean people who you may not even expect to make friends with.