Ok so 2 people have asked me out now...... 2 girls from my work...... IM NOT INTERESTED most people know I'm gay there and I gues also most DON'T. I want a hot guy to ask me out not GIRLS! Ugh am I coming off straight now?
If you don't want them to know that you are gay, then tell them that you are flattered by their offer but you are not interested. Or maybe they know you are gay and they are just being immature.
I said I'm single but I'm not ready to mingle when one asked my relationship status and asked me out I was like I'm not into dating right now.
I got asked by Canadian girl out through the internet.... does that count? As far as what she knows, I'm gay as anyone else, (In Reality i swing both ways) so I asked her why does she even bother? She Replied "oh its because You're a really nice gentlemen..." v_v I feel sorry for her <---- Literally ended up laughing at her so bad i don't even regret it. It was just too funny. (because she wasnt my type... end of!)
I'm sorry, but you're getting asked out by anyone. No, it's not a hot guy, but do you know how many people would kill for that ego boost? This is not in any way a bad experience. Turn them down politely (as you did) and move on. If you want to go out with a hot guy, you do the asking.
Unfortunately, unless you're super butch(Girl) or feminine(guy) people always assume you're straight. As a lipstick loving lesbian I feel your pain!
Hey! Someone thinks you're attractive and wants to go out with you! Awesome! I mean, as far as wanting a hot guy to ask you out (who doesn't want that), then you may have to tell people that you're gay, not everyone is going to assume that you are. Also, I hope you were nice to her, you may one day accidentally ask out a straight guy and you would want him to treat you the same way.
I have been hit on and asked out by girls as well, I try to take it as a compliment. Its an indication that someone finds you attractive, and if they don't know your gay its not really there fault. Should consider having a better outlook on life, it will do wonders for stress.
You see, moment like that are why I feel so good about myself. Also, I love saying "Sorry honey, I'm gay"
I agree though I'm a soft butch, I've been asked out by guys who i can tell are being sarcastic (i'm good at telling if people are being sarcastic or not) and it can be down right annoying
Nice gay guys *often* get asked out by girls who are either clueless that they're gay, or are fag hags, or are convinced they can "turn" them. Just be polite, and as Budder said, be happy that people are flattering you by asking
^^ Pretty much this. Even though it's not who you hope for to ask you out, take it as a compliment. You're hot, and people want to date YOU. =D=D=D
Umm... Ya ok how is this offensive I'd love to hear this? Please entertain me. Your the only one here who is offended please explain? I'm listening.
