are you worried about not having kids

Yep, I feel you. But I guess I could adopt, so I clicked a tiny bit.

 

yes i worry about it every day i want nothing more than to be a mother and it seems like it will never happen for me.

 

Nope. I don't want to have kids anyway.

 

I don't feel like I would want kids in the future, although when I have voiced such thoughts my father is always blabbing in "I want a grandson to take fishing!". So it does worry me somewhat about the future and if I would want kids or not, but I could always adopt, I guess.

 

Not really, since I don't want to have children. They are expensive and the world needs less human beings. Not to mention that I wouldn't be a good father, and would only make them suffer the same way my own parents made me. Childless people are the only ones who are genuinely altruistic, in my opinion.

 

Nah. I don't even want kids.

 

I badly want to be a father someday. But I also want to try out a relationship with a guy, and might like it enough to never look back. In that case, adoption wouldn't be so bad, but I want to have a kid that's really mine also.

*sigh* Who said life would be full of such zero-sum conclusions?

 

Not at all, but I'm only 15.

 

I have 2. So............................

 

Absolutely not. I definitely do not want children, and I don't ever have to worry about impregnating a woman, so I'm good.

 

i realised a while back that i may dislike kids. I get along with kids fine, its just that i find them annoying. Maybe this is because i have accepted the fact that i ma gay and so probably wont have my own kids...

 

I hate kids! Lol.

I have never had any interest in having children, and I don't want the financial, social and moral responsibilities of raising a child/children, either. I also have serious doubts about my parenting skills. Then again, everyone says that at some point in your life, that all changes, and you start wanting to have children. I am still very doubtful that it will happen to me, but I will think about it if/when the day comes.

The only thing that worries me is the thought that the only thing we really know about the meaning of life is that we are meant to survive and to reproduce. There is a chance that when I die, I will meet before some God/gods to be judged for my failure to do so. Logic and reason tell me that this is silly, but I still can never know for sure.

 

There are few things I want more in the world than to be a dad and the thought that it may never happen makes me unbelievably sad.

 

My lack of interest in kids was one of the reasons I initially thought I was a lesbian (I didn't know much back then). When I started dating men, I got my tubes tied. It was a hassle convincing the doctor I was sure about that at 26 years old. There's an amusing (I think) story to go with that, but I won't post that here).

 

I always wanted to have kids. Then I accepted I was gay, so kids wouldn't ever happen. That depressed me. Then I realized that the story behind me wanting kids was the same as the expectation of marrying a woman one day. So I understood that, hey, maybe I don't actually want kids. Then I realized that even as a gay guy, I can have kids. So then I started questioning if I, after all, want them

So, anyway, at the moment it's not bothering me, but I am worried that it will take me years to realize that in the end I do want kids after all; but then it might be too late. I'm 31 already.

 

I just can't stop imagining a picture of me and my partner with kids in the future.

Kids are amazing ! I don't care about what people say, just spending my life with my lover and raising children is the biggest dream that I've ever had. I was always a motherly person, I can take care of anything and anyone that I love, so it isn't a big deal for me to treat and raise a kid the right way. It seems kinda funny to think this way for a guy my age, overly mature I guess.

So yeah, I do have the fear of not having kids in the future ._. just hope adoption for gay parents will become more common when I get there.

 

I really don't want kids. I can't find a philosophically sound reason why I should have them and I don't have any burning biological desire either so, yeah. that's just not happening.

BUT, if for some reason I changed my mind, I would open up my home for fostering and/adopting the kids that other people can't or won't bother caring for.

 

I'm more worried about finding a surrogate with desirable genetics and a very high intelligence. I know there's no definitive link between genetics and intelligence, but there's a correlation and I don't think I could love a dumb, or even average intelligence child.

 

For now, no. I doubt I'll ever have kids. I can really only take care of myself - and plants, though I do struggle with them. Besides, they are about the worst thing you could do ecologically.