S.l.u.t.

my ex boyfriend told all his friend i was a slut but in reality....im not a slut....im just a bitch.....

what makes a slut? nothing....i feel it was some derogatory that was passed along by some sleazy angry male or some ignorant woman
and now society over uses it and thinks every girl who sleeps with a guy is a slut

 

There's no such thing as a slut. People can have sex with anyone has many times as they want. As long as they're being safe, of course.
It's really disgusting that people still use that word as a derogatory term.

 

& they can even do it w/out being safe if they want, it's their choice

 

The word "slut" is used to shame people who enjoy their sexuality. Asking what constitutes a slut is, in my opinion, like asking what constitutes a "fag"; it's not especially worthy of consideration because no one should be branded with the term. (Unless they want to use it to label themselves, in which case I say live and let live, although I question how worthwhile it is to try to "reclaim" a word whose very purpose is to put down those trying to reclaim it.)

 

its funny. the people who sling that word tend to be the ones in society who it best describes.

 

Insult.
Mostly it is said when someone does 'things' with a guy without even knowing him that long. Or with many guys. Other than that...no. At least here in Holland.

 

Word story

Slut first appeared in the written language in 1402, according to the Oxford English Dictionary , that great repository of language information. At that time, slut meant roughly what one sense of slattern means today: a slovenly, untidy woman or girl. It also apparently meant “kitchen maid” (”She is a cheerful slut who keeps the pots scrubbed and the fires hot.”). By the end of the 15th century the sense “a woman given to immoral or improper conduct” had come into use, and it is the only meaning in use today. Interestingly, the same second meaning, a promiscuous woman, developed for the term slattern.

 

True. It seems to be used primarily as another way for mean girls to put down other girls. It's unlikely that guys who subscribe to the hetero-normative narrative (i.e. stereotypical guys) would want to discourage women from having sex by insulting them for it.

 

A slut is someone who has more sex than you.
A prude is someone who has less sex than you.

Neither are good terms.

 

How true.

 

My best friends always call me a slut. I'm not sexually active so they usually say it because of a point or my opinion in a sex-related conversation. Personally, I don't think anyone should be ashamed of their sexuality but at the sametime, I don't exactly see eye to eye with the "Sexual Liberation" that seems to go on nowadays.

I am just a sensual person, I can't help it. I definitely prefer to be active with someone I trust and enjoy on all levels but that doesn't stop the thoughts and scenarios.

For instance, last night I had a lucid sex dream that was so intense, I nearly flipped out of bed.

Does that make me a slut?....Or a person who had a kick-ass lucid dream last night?....

 

haha what, it's used more by misogynistic pieces of shit like that than it is by women

 

If you're insulted by the word "slut" either stop being a slut or gain some self confidence and acknowledge that you like having sex with lots of people often. If you're not actually a slut and get called a slut, say "That's not true" and move on. I've never seen the logic in being upset by simple insults like this. If someone went on to insult your character and deeper traits about you, then yeah, it makes sense, but being called a slut for no reason is as petty an insult as "You're gay."

 

You are not a slut.

Who said you were? What happened?

 

I consider myself a supporter of sex positivism, and thus I consider the term "slut" and it's derogatory meaning to be nonsensical and insulting.

 

Mother of god...Teach me how to lucid dream.

 

You are not a slut. The term is meaningless and a simple assault by those who may well be jealous. Don't even pay attention maybe you can do what I did with the word queer and have it tattooed on your wrist. LOL I think that would piss them off. Hugs George you are not a slut angel.