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Stevie J · 23rd Mar 2008, 10:34 PM

so i went to Tahoe for spring break (i'll post pictures soon) and sat next to this very good looking fellow on the plane out there.
he was going to Hawaii with his family and had a connecting flight. well so we talked for a while and played some UNO.
well as we were getting off the flight i gave him my name and email and told him he should add me to his facebook and let me know how it went.
i think he was really put off. it was more of an attempt to make a friend but it totaly came off that i was some creepy gay guy. oh man..

never added me, but at least i gave him a sweet story to tell people.

mcrteenagers · 23rd Mar 2008, 10:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stevie J

so i went to Tahoe for spring break (i'll post pictures soon) and sat next to this very good looking fellow on the plane out there.
he was going to Hawaii with his family and had a connecting flight. well so we talked for a while and played some UNO.
well as we were getting off the flight i gave him my name and email and told him he should add me to his facebook and let me know how it went.
i think he was really put off. it was more of an attempt to make a friend but it totaly came off that i was some creepy gay guy. oh man..

never added me, but at least i gave him a sweet story to tell people.

It was better than not doing anything. Then you would have regreted it.

A good story none-the-less.

beckyg · 24th Mar 2008, 05:50 AM

Its always good to reach out to people. So don't take his rejection personally. It may be he just hasn't had time to add you yet also.

CrimsonThunder · 24th Mar 2008, 06:17 AM

I'd be freaked out too. :P So don't worry, lots of people would. Takes courage to do something like that.

Kimi · 24th Mar 2008, 10:12 AM

Not really!!

I'm the one who wants to give him my email and stuff but ended up not to and regret later

At least, you have guts to do it

Jerr · 24th Mar 2008, 09:29 PM

*looks Stevie up and down*

...yeah, I wouldn't consider it creepy. I'd be down right flattered. (even if it was just an offer of friendship.)

p.s.

UNO=GOD

Stevie J · 24th Mar 2008, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Kimi

Not really!!

I'm the one who wants to give him my email and stuff but ended up not to and regret later

At least, you have guts to do it

well thanks for the confidence boost =)

Stevie J · 24th Mar 2008, 09:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jerr

*looks Stevie up and down*

...yeah, I wouldn't consider it creepy. I'd be down right flattered. (even if it was just an offer of friendship.)

p.s.

UNO=GOD

umm.. idk, you might if you were straight... but thanks =)

Jerr · 24th Mar 2008, 11:06 PM

If you're hetero and you think it's creepy for someone to hit on you or think you're cute because someone of the same sex is the person showing the attention...

bleh on your face!

If a homo likes you... a hetero female will like you... it's like the law. (Who do you think talks to the homo about hot guys? Not just other homogays...)

25th Mar 2008, 04:32 AM

I would hace tried to be friends to. I dont get why straight guys cant be friends with us gays, they act like its so wierd.

Stevie J · 25th Mar 2008, 11:13 AM

he was A really metro straight guy if he was. even acted a little bit flirtatious... maybe i just wasn't his type... i've never encountered that before, but it could happen.

Thatsit · 25th Mar 2008, 12:45 PM

I don't think it's that creepy of you

How was the trip though? I went there a couple springs ago and the snowboarding was awesome

Stevie J · 25th Mar 2008, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Thatsit

I don't think it's that creepy of you

How was the trip though? I went there a couple springs ago and the snowboarding was awesome

um it hadn't snowed in a couple weeks and it had been (and was) really warm. so it was either slush or sheer ice.. but it was so beautiful i didn't care. one of these day's i'll post pictures.

23rd Mar 2008, 10:34 PM	#1
Stevie J Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: guys... girls... i'm an all around kind of guy Out Status: all of you and a select few Location: Michigan, whoot whoot! Age: 23 Posts: 127 Join Date: Jan 2008	oh god i'm so awkward... so i went to Tahoe for spring break (i'll post pictures soon) and sat next to this very good looking fellow on the plane out there. he was going to Hawaii with his family and had a connecting flight. well so we talked for a while and played some UNO. well as we were getting off the flight i gave him my name and email and told him he should add me to his facebook and let me know how it went. i think he was really put off. it was more of an attempt to make a friend but it totaly came off that i was some creepy gay guy. oh man.. never added me, but at least i gave him a sweet story to tell people. __________________ Peace, Love, and Tictacs! three things the world will never be in excess of...

24th Mar 2008, 05:50 AM	#3
beckyg PFLAG Mom Community Liaison Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... Its always good to reach out to people. So don't take his rejection personally. It may be he just hasn't had time to add you yet also. __________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks

24th Mar 2008, 06:17 AM	#4
CrimsonThunder Seventh Son of a Seventh Son Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Bi Out Status: Friends, Work, Whoever knows Location: South Australian! Posts: 3,536 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... I'd be freaked out too. :P So don't worry, lots of people would. Takes courage to do something like that. __________________ Biggest car buff around.

24th Mar 2008, 10:12 AM	#5
Kimi EC's Biggest Horndog Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Japan Age: 22 Posts: 3,017 Join Date: Feb 2007	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... Not really!! I'm the one who wants to give him my email and stuff but ended up not to and regret later At least, you have guts to do it __________________ AMAZINGLY, I GET HOTTER WITH MY CLOTHES OFF

24th Mar 2008, 09:29 PM	#6
Jerr Pirate! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: If I have to say, I, my friends, am homogay. Out Status: All but family Location: Hot Springs, Arkansas Age: 22 Posts: 2,149 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... looks Stevie up and down ...yeah, I wouldn't consider it creepy. I'd be down right flattered. (even if it was just an offer of friendship.) p.s. UNO=GOD __________________ My Koolaid's Flavor is Fierce! Fierce Koolaid is filled with Vitamin Gangster! That's right. I'm gangster. I'm so gangster I practically sweat Awesome.

24th Mar 2008, 11:06 PM	#9
Jerr Pirate! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: If I have to say, I, my friends, am homogay. Out Status: All but family Location: Hot Springs, Arkansas Age: 22 Posts: 2,149 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... If you're hetero and you think it's creepy for someone to hit on you or think you're cute because someone of the same sex is the person showing the attention... bleh on your face! If a homo likes you... a hetero female will like you... it's like the law. (Who do you think talks to the homo about hot guys? Not just other homogays...) __________________ My Koolaid's Flavor is Fierce! Fierce Koolaid is filled with Vitamin Gangster! That's right. I'm gangster. I'm so gangster I practically sweat Awesome.

25th Mar 2008, 04:32 AM	#10
Lacri Guest Posts: n/a	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... I would hace tried to be friends to. I dont get why straight guys cant be friends with us gays, they act like its so wierd.

25th Mar 2008, 11:13 AM	#11
Stevie J Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: guys... girls... i'm an all around kind of guy Out Status: all of you and a select few Location: Michigan, whoot whoot! Age: 23 Posts: 127 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... he was A really metro straight guy if he was. even acted a little bit flirtatious... maybe i just wasn't his type... i've never encountered that before, but it could happen. __________________ Peace, Love, and Tictacs! three things the world will never be in excess of...

25th Mar 2008, 12:45 PM	#12
Thatsit aka RyanMan (or Ryan) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: The friends I care to tell. Family'll come later Location: Champaign, Illinois Age: 21 Posts: 259 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: oh god i'm so awkward... I don't think it's that creepy of you How was the trip though? I went there a couple springs ago and the snowboarding was awesome

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