This is a question for out gay people. as someone questioning just wondered if you really can tell straight away (obviously not counting the extreme obvious)
Yeah, pretty much this. Sometimes you're just sure someone's gay, but people behave and appear the way they do for a myriad of reasons, not just sexual orientation. Ultimately there's no way to be sure of someone else's sexuality. You just have to trust them to figure it out on their own. It would be a lot easier for those of us who are Questioning if gaydar was foolproof. :icon_wink
