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Strip clubs!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Monocle, Mar 21, 2013.

  1. Monocle

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    Would you ever go to one? :wink:
     
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    I've been before, when I was sure I was straight, with some straight female friends and their boyfriends.

    I remember wishing the ladies would keep their bottoms on instead of basically spreading it open and shaking their business in your face. It was just... too much. I did enjoy the motor boating a great deal though :icon_bigg

    Also, I remember pointing out to my friend how I had wound up subconsciously balling up my drink napkin in my fist haha, apparently I was more tense than I realized.
     
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    When I was a student we used to have a technical drawing lesson first thing after lunch on a Wednesday. The teacher was an old guy who we used to call Fang because he used to take his false teeth out during class and scrape them with a pen knife to get his lunch of the teeth. To take our minds off this we used to go to the local strip club for beer and watch mostly over weight housewives perform to supplement their income. So I am not sure which was the most off putting.

    I don’t know if I would go again after being traumatised as a youngster.

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  4. falsereading

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    Went to one last year, went to another one a couple of years ago. I find it hilarious personally as I am clearly not interested, even if I was straight I can't think I would find it erotic (not sure I would find a gay one a turn on, not my style).
     
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    I've been dragged to one a couple of times by my straight friends. I would just sit at a table and drink until we left. This is before I came out and they never knew why I never had any fun.
     
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    I had to go to one last summer for my brother's bachelor party, that was a very long 6 hours. I'm surprised that none of them could figure out why I wasn't having a good time.
     
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    No, I'd never go to one. That doesn't appeal to me at all.
     
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    I reluctantly went to one with friends once and it ended up being one of the most fun nights of my life, dancing with the strippers on the tables and stuff. It was really funny and I'd do it again, though I have the feeling that the palce we went to was a bit more casual and not as snobbish as most strip clubs are. Everyone was really approachable and the dancers were not looking for lap dances, at least they were not pursuing it.
     
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    I went once, mostly because a friend's friend was in the show. What I remember most is that he was covered in a yummy-smelling oil (coconut, I think) and I didn't want that on my clothes when he climbed in my lap. Watching (either sex) doesn't do much for me, but it was okay.
     
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    I got dragged to one. It was boring but everyone was too drunk to realise why I found it so boring (I wasn't out them)

    From a gay point of view it looked kinda pathetic
     
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    Hell yes I would! If I had anyone to go with me (which I don't).
     
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    I'm not sure. My mind often feels like it's split.

    The part of me that's attracted to women thinks I'd love it.
    The part of me that IS a woman thinks that I'd be empathizing with the dancers too much.
     
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    I have been to a strip club pretty recently (with lady strippers) for one of my friends birthdays. I had fun, nothing too uncomfortable or anything. I think I'd prefer to go to one that had men stripping haha, but Ive never gone to one of those. I have been very drunk at a gay bar with dancers before though, throwing my money away in his underwear.
     
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    I have a friend who was a stripper. If I went and saw her she'd probably think it was hilarious and give me a dance. haha. I would rather see a burlesque show though it is more classy and sexy to me.
     
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    Absolutely not I think it is so degrading. Plus it's a tease I don't like the idea if it. And there could be diseases everywhere :O
     
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    I wouldn't go to one on the principle of women being viewed as objects. If I wanted to see men/women strip, I'd go to a burlesque night where the performers wanted to perform and did it all on their terms.
     
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    Usually you'd pay the dancer screaming "put it on! Put it on!!"
     
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    I've been to both kinds, I'm not really into them. I don't really like strangers rubbing up on me. I like looking at the hot guys but I could find better things to throw money away on.
     
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    I would never go to one. Ever. Like Taylor Swift Said. NEVER EVER EVER...GOING TO A STRIP CLUB!
     
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    I'm curious so I'll probably go when I'm of age. :icon_redf