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Do you get awkward around a person you find sexually attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alexander69, Mar 21, 2013.

  1. Alexander69

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    When I'm serving customers sometimes ill get a really really REALLY sexy guy and my speech gets all F'd up its totz embarrassing :frowning2: like this guy asked for a angus bacon cheese burger and I said you want the Acon bangus cheese burger..... I was soooo embarrassed OMG. Anyways to stop this from happening advice?
     
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    To be fair, if someone liked you back they're likely to think it's cute.

    I feel my face start burning sometimes, oh geez. How obvious if it looks on the outside how it feels to me! I don't think my speech gets impaired though.
     
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    Oh I so understand how you feel. Just remember people are just people LIKE YOU, and in the end it won't matter cause you'll probably never see these hot guys ever again. I HATE when people say "oooooh just be yourself" but honestly what else can you be?
     
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    My face burns all the effing time I am around someone I find attractive, romantically or sexually. I rarely speak, so I don't know if I stutter like a freaking dork, either.

    Does your stomach twist and turn, too? Or is that just me?
     
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    It's a dead give away if I like someone. I blush so hard I make a ripe tomato look pale. :icon_redf :grin: I don't think there's a way to stop it, but I think it's cute when people get tongue tied. Just pretend you're really tired and it'll work out. Lol
     
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    I don't think my stomach turns, but I'm sure that's quite common. I'm very shy, so I never really get to test this stuff out either. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I just say dumb things, and get red in the cheeks
     
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    It goes away with age I am happy to say.... June
     
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    i do i cant talk and i cant look at them i fell so weird
     
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    Yes.

    I'm pretty good at interpersonal communication. But when I'm attracted to someone, I tend to get quite awkward and can't make eye contact.
     
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    Well, not exactly sexually attractive, but if I'm attracted to them... hello awkward behaviour and tons of social anxiety.
     
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    when it comes to women i flirt hard out with them and they normally flirt back

    with the guys... i get all quiet and and avoid eye contact... (and thats why i get no where with guys coz they get the impression that im snobbing them.. but really i dont know what to do )
     
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    I have a crush on a really Hot Guy at work, I feel some sort of connection with him, our eyes always seem to meet, he is engaged to a girl :icon_sad:
    When I speak to him I feel all funny & find it hard to get my words out :eusa_doh: I must look like a right dork :badgrin:
     
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    Yes, it can be rather awkward. It's probably just me being aware of it to a hightened degree, but I find myself being really concious of not showing it, probably to the point of acting wierdly. If anything was gonna give me away, it probably wouldn't be my natural reaction, it would be my concious reaction to it.

    That burger sounds good btw. Can I have one please.
     
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    I go all weird stammer my words talk about stupid things I dont know about I have missed a couple of steps at work ''not looking where am going'' ended up on my arse:icon_redf :eusa_doh:
     
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    Happens to us all, we are more self conscious of our feelings than others, if you have never met this person then they probably think you at weird all the time.
     
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    Yes... Completely.
    Im getting better, I think,
     
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    I agree that it dissipates with age but until then get your shit together. Think about what the worst thing that could happen is and if it's not a big deal then go for it. If it is then it's probably better to just let it go until an opportune moment presents itself. What do you have to lose?
     
  19. No, I'm never awkward. My autism means I don't pick up on awkwardness and I can't really do it.
     
  20. Haley M

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    Ill start feeling uncomfortable and start stuttering around someone that is attractive!