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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Needtoknow, Mar 23, 2013.

  1. Needtoknow

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    Should I change the nickname I use in a particular game.

    BEATA_POOF


    As you see it can mean beat-a-poof as well as just the silly nickname Beata Poof

    Im from Sweden and therefor I didnt completely understood the meaning of the word "poof" when I picked my name. I thought it was an old funny word for somebody whos is a little silly and clumsy :rolle:

    I hate prejudices and violence (if its not in some humoristic context) so I dont want to truly offend anyone or give the wrong impression of myself.

    Its a mess to change nick but if I hurt people I'll do it.

    Please someone

    I posted this topic earlier but got no replies. Hope someone can give me a hint.

    Thousand thanks in advance / Abe :help:
     
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    It can go either way. There will be some people who will be offended by it and some who won't. Generally, I don't think "poof" is super offensive anymore though.

    If you think it's a big concern then go ahead and change it. I don't think it's a big deal though.

    P.S. If you haven't gotten a reply on your thread, give it a bit of time, or post in it again to bring it back to the front page. Making multiple threads clutters the forums.
     
  3. Niko

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    I don't think it's offensive at all. :confused:
     
  4. Needtoknow

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    Thanks a lot.

    That was what I needed. I forgot to mention I meant it as a sort of invitation to beat me(in the game that is :slight_smile: ), which makes me the poof.

    Now I think I have got the "weight impact " of the word and I've decided to keep it.

    I am very greatful you took your time for this. :thewave:

    / Abe

    ---------- Post added 23rd Mar 2013 at 10:05 AM ----------

    ..and I sorry for spamming.

    Main reason for repost was rewriting it and change topic so it would better describe my problem.

    The origin topic was too general.
     
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    Why is the word "poof" offensive anyways? What is it mean?
    I think its cute like Pooh ._.
     
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    Brit/Aussie slang for a male homosexual, based on the permanant stretching of the anus that results from repeated anal sex, which causes farts to be emitted with a "pooft" sound rather than the usual, stacatto "bra-a-a-p". :badgrin:
     
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    Eurh... okay its enough, thanks. You'll stain my cute word pooh -_-"
     
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    :roflmao:
     
  9. Needtoknow

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    Hi Dubliner

    Thanks for your efforts getting involved in this issue. :slight_smile:

    This is just a last quick double check.

    Would you think the rest of the population of the British Isles generally considered the word poof as offensive/negative or "gay-cute-funny"?

    Also I wonder If i was totally wrong when used the word as "silly-clumsy",
    since Renge thought it was cute (until you stained it :slight_smile: ) and Niko from US seemed ok with the word.

    Thanks again everyone
     
  10. Dublin Boy

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    I think it is considered offensive in Ireland & the British Isles, on the same level as the word Queer, mainly as I think a Homophobic person says it in a derogatory way with the intent of it being Offensive to the gay person!
     
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    Okej, I think i've got the picture now. Im oc not homofobic but since other players dont know that, perhaps I should try change my nick after all.


    Thanks again. /abe
     
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    All good no worries... Wait in fairlygodparents there is a little kid named poof