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Gay couples DANCING!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ryanninjasheep, Mar 24, 2013.

  1. ryanninjasheep

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    I was wondering how people in gay relationships slow dance... Do most decide beforehand who's the "man" and "woman" or what? I just randomly wondered this and thought "I'll ask EC!"
     
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    Haha, sometimes it's whoever's tallest/shortest, other times it's whoever actually knows how to dance.
     
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    ^ I second tallest/shortest. Though not dancing, when I give my roommate a hug, we nest in such a way that's most comfortable for both of us since he's taller than I am.
     
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    ^ Awwwww.

    But yeah I'd say the taller/shorter...which means I guess I'm going to always lead or w/e give I'm 6'2''. Hard to find someone taller than me lol
     
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    Wow, so much warmth from this post :icon_wink

    I agree, definitely. Being super tall, it always surprises me when someone hugs me with their arms above mine, effectively immobilizing me and preventing me from participating in the hug :tantrum: Just embrace me and put your head on my chest and let me hold you :slight_smile:

    I never danced with a guy, but I'd go with "whoever actually knows how to dance" as well :slight_smile:

    Pfft..

    jk :wink:
     
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    (!)It's always my partner. I can't dance for the world. Hopefully, they know how to dance.
     
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    As long as my partner knows how to dance he will be the one leading.
     
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    It is tallest/shortest in my book. I just need to find a tall guy who can dance.
     
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    I am a hopeless romantic. I would love to find someone to slow dance with. I have always dreamed going on like a gay-vacation with others and learn how to slow dance...or other more exotic dance....tango would be fun :slight_smile:
     
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    Ha. I've never thought about this before, whenever I've slow danced with another woman the positions just sort of happened naturally. For me, personally, it's not so much about height as personality; the more dominant personality has always led and that just seems to be something that we default to because of our respective personalities.
     
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    I've thought about this recently too. It does seem like it tends to happen naturally, and I don't think there is really any one set way to go about it.
     
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    Same here. He or she will be leading. That really irritated my ex girlfriend.
     
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    I have often thought about this. When I was a teenager I did swing dancing which was a ton of fun, but in retrospect it seems gender-specific and heteronormative. I kind of want to pick it up again, but I think I'd be nervous.
     
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    This could be an issue, I am short but I can dance :lol:. I can dance as lead or follow so I guess it can be their preference.