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Copping off with my Dads friend

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  1. Dublin Boy

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    It was whilst reading another post that I remembered this incident, I was in a Pub getting drunk & I was talking to a friend of my Dads, after the pub closed we went back to his house as he had some more drink at home, I don't know how it happened but I ended up in bed with him, as far as I was concerned he was Straight & had been married a few times, now I was in the closet & how I ended up in bed with him I have no idea, I do vaguely remember that we did not have sex, other things happened but not sex, I remember him telling me that he was Bi & him telling me that I must be Bi, the next morning I felt awkward & told him I would catch him later, the next day he rang me & I ignored his calls, then he came around my house & knocked on the door, I ignored him, this happened for a few days & then just stopped, I have seen him out & about since, but nothing is said.
     
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    It has just dawned on me Copping Off is a very Irish/British word :slight_smile:
    It means Make Out with someone, sorry about that :badgrin:
     
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    Perspective is a key component here. Because i'm not sure whether that counts as a win, lost or "one of those days." :roflmao:
     
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    Well, it kinda depends how old you are, doesn't it? If you're like 17 or younger, it'd be very odd. I don't know what the age of consent and stuff is in the UK, and all...

    Again, as the person above me said, it depends on how you feel about this.

    Just 'cause of your avatar, I'd always thought you were like 14 or something :lol:
     
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    didnt expect that Dublin boy(!)
     
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    Age of consent is 16 in the UK.
     
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    Wow that can get awkward.

    Meh you were drunk, I dread to imagine who I have copped off with when I have been drunk.

    Thankfully I don't know any of my parents Gay friends so.

    Still at least you didn't have sex with him, you were spared the indignity of the "walk of shame" and waking up naked and ahem sore in bed with some guy. (Not me but I have heard tales of it)
     
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    One of those days I guess, I was also quite embarrassed, as far as I was concerned all of my parents friends were Straight, I was in the closet & still confused at that stage :slight_smile:
     
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    :slight_smile:
     
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    Dublin Boy-All I can say is I feel your embarrassment lol.
     
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    I got over it though :badgrin:
     
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    Wow, scary stuff! But all the more sad that nothing further was said...though you did the right thing by ignoring his advances after the "incident".

    Do you still run into him at times?
     
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    The only time I see him now, is when he is in the Pub & he always seems to have had a few, he tends to get me mixed up with my brother & he never mentions anything about what happened :slight_smile:
     
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    Just as well...must still be weird though...:dry:
     
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    Huh... I'm not really sure if there's a lesson to be learned there or not. Lol :slight_smile: As long as it's all good now, I guess all you can do is look back and say "C'est la vie!"
     
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    :O whoaaaaa... The things you discover! :grin:
     
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    Lol :badgrin:
     
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    Part of life's journey I suppose :slight_smile:
     
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    I would find that terribly awkward!

    I'd have probably fled the country after that... :grin: