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being asked for hetero dating advise

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ticklish Fish, Mar 30, 2013.

  1. Ticklish Fish

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    the awkward moment when you're in closet, never dated, and being asked about girls advise... *facepalm*

    omg, like I need boys advise :roflmao:
     
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    People assume. Well have you given any good advise? I could always use it.
     
  3. Ticklish Fish

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    also, there are girls who only date once and marry, and then there are girls who date a few times till marry.
    personally, i am told undergraduate you actually have more time to have fun and do other things as opposed to graduate/masters. SAs for dating, I really don't know. Some people I've observed from high school are able to date and maintain good grades. Some do the same in college. i would say up to you... but personally I would just meet people, open up myself (ok, not too open yourself to people in a creepy way). I mean, it's college lol. And you never know that you might like a new form of entertainment or hobby, etc.

    ^ what I wrote
     
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    Not bad, not bad at all.
     
  5. Ticklish Fish

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    how so?
    I thought it could be better.. but I am inexperienced in life :/
     
  6. cm81990

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    Are you being asked how to approach girls? Or did your friend already approached one and is now in the process of dating?
     
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    "Do you think its a good idea to get a girl during my undergraduate career or graduate career or is it better to wait until I have a job?"

    basically he never dated in high school because his parents don't allow him or something lol.

    I just thought this is funny that I got asked on relationship advise... for someone who never dated
     
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    I got asked for dating advice by a gay guy once. It was awkward.
     
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    Funny, I've experienced the opposite scenario - no one would have ever asked my advice before, but once I come out suddenly I'm an expert!

    Same with fashion sense (I have none), Cameron, Cameron, come tell me what you think of how this looks!

    No. And I hate shopping before you ask me to do that, too. :lol:
     
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    Actually, I'm always asking my friends for dating advice.... I guess one good thing about being out is being able to ask openly for advice.

    I'm too nerdy and inexperienced to be sought out for answers to romantic inquiries.
     
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    Well, if you were out, one thing you might be able to advise them on is how a man can make himself more sexually attractive.

    That is, assuming gay guys and hetero women go for the same things in a guy. Has this ever been studied?
     
  12. Acobi

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    Eh, it is just dating, not marriage! As with anything, it is a time commitment and you need to balance your life with any relationship. I can say though, usually as you move on in life you get busier.

    Well, good news is you are pulling off the straight male vibe well that they do not detect you! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  13. Ticklish Fish

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    sorry to bump this.. but same guy...

    from the conversation we just had today and previously that he didn't date during middle school and high school and there's this girl he likes who happens to be in the same class right now, in college >_>

    he even asked me if i have dated, in high school and in college.

    Of course I tell him no.

    and I didn't tell him I am gay, I don't feel the need to...
     
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    My crush (who knows it) says I can't give him relationship advice until I seduce him...
    It's not that easy!
    At least he's joking :wink:
     
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    Lol, my guy friends talk to me about girl problems (dating, liking, relationship). It's funny some might not know I'm gay while some do and yet I'm the one they talk to. I ain't Oprah!