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Why do people only notice you once you are in a relationship

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Beware Of You, Apr 1, 2013.

  1. Beware Of You

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    Okay this is amusing me,

    I have a boyfriend, we are serious and are in love, he is everything that I want and I honestly think he is the "one" and we are already discussing a civil partnership eek.

    Since I have been with him alot of wierd stuff has happened, I got voted cutest guy in the College LGBT society, a picture of me done up for pride was on the cover of the local LGBT magazine (I was in a pink pride tee, hotpants, pink hair with the rainbow flag draped over by back) and I have been asked out literally by 15 people. Its to the point where "I am not single" is a standard response now.

    I get called a spoilsport alot, and my boyfriend is really worried that I am going to run into a guy who won't take no for an answer.

    Its funny how some people only notice you once you are not single
     
  2. Boyfriend

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    When you are a couple, you feel more open and free and look just more jolly and happy, especially in the beginning. I can say that about me anyway. Plus people know for sure that you are gay... so you attract more gays then when they aren't so sure, I suppose.
     
  3. 4ever Hearth

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    What he said. :thumbsup:
     
  4. Ettina

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    My Dad said after he got married, he suddenly had women coming on to him who'd never shown any interest before.
     
  5. saggitarius91

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    When you're happy, you give off good vibes and people are attracted to that.