(Part of a recent blog post by myself) I'm sat in my room, a cup of tea by my side. The other side, a radiator is letting out a light comforting heat into the room. I wouldn't say I am lacking the physical things in life, such as: I have clothes to wear; a roof above my head, warmth and a family. Yet, we all still crave the things we don't have, it's all part of Human Nature. Emotional instability is more important, and we sometimes forget this aspect of ourselves in today's society. Personally, all I want is someone I can hold and to cherish, to snuggle up to at night. To close my eyes and forget the troubles that the day possesses for me. My day will come, and so will anyone else that craves the same things I have expressed. It will. We are all in this together, and loneliness is a sly one; but we will all overcome it some day. (Just thought this might enlighten some people, if they think they will never find someone, I know people who feel that way.) (&&&)
I know what you mean, its human nature to always want more. No matter how much I tell myself I have enough in life (in terms of living, food etc), I always want that someone. I like your optimism , I really hope good things really do come to those who wait.
Doh! What a cute little pink BornInTexas! Just what I always wanted! My own little Texas born! I will name him George; and I will hug him and pet him and squeeze him! (*hug*)
Love your fates friends! Love your solitude and love your partner, each will come in its own time. It's called living fully in the moment and leaving the yearnings for your dreams...
You are right it can take time, but you need to be getting out there and looking. I spent a lot of time waiting for someone to find me, but nothing happened until I made it happen.
*Smiles* You are amazing, I hope you find that someone. Everyone deserves a someone (*hug*) :thewave: -MARILYN MONROE :love:
My problem is that I always want something more, I never let go of my feeling for everyone from my past, and I jump from person to person and never have a way out when it goes downhill. Sometimes I wish I were single, yet when I am, I can't stand the loneliness either. I always want what I can't have... Always have what I don't want. It's always a struggle. Hope this doesn't bring anyone down more. Its just MY harsh truth, whether it applies to anyone else or not. =/
Thank you for your responses, yes, BornInTexas, we should all have one group hug. ---------- Post added 13th Apr 2013 at 04:17 AM ---------- Good old English tea, I have.
Most of the time I don't think about it. I usually don't feel very lonely, I like being alone. But at night the loneliness hits me... I'm sort of embarrassed to admit it but I hug my extra pillow sometimes (almost every night). In my defense, I had a bad break-up. Although it was almost 8 months ago. D: I wish I liked meeting new people. hugs to everyone
