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Oh, the lows one can sink to...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by damn liar, Apr 15, 2013.

  1. damn liar

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    I have just spend the last... hour? two hours? on my friend's fake Facebook account (since I don't have one) staring at my crush's profile page, reading every single thing he's posted and marveling at the (very small) profile pic... The next step is creating a fake account of my own, befriending one of his friends and hoping his photo setting are on 'friends of friends can view this'. :grin: What are the odds of that happening, btw?

    Yeah, this is pretty much the lowest I've sunk to so far. In my defense, he's cute and straight.

    So I was wondering, does anyone else have similar stories they'd like to share? We can feel desperate and pathetic together, if need be. :grin:
     
  2. izzyblue1456

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    I do that more then I would like to. A lot of my friends friends are so damn hot and I cant help myself.
     
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    Wait, why can't you just make your own Facebook?

    That way you could actually befriend him and actually have conversation with him. :slight_smile:
     
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    ^This^
     
  5. BornInTexas

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    I've befriended my crush, but I don't speak to him because I'm afraid to talk to him, and I might say something stupid, but meh. I've stared at all of his pictures for dayssss. xD

    #CreepyModeActivated
     
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    Oh yes, I've done creepy shit on my crush/friend's profile. Luckily, you can't see who's been creeping on you, so I'm safe for now...
     
  7. damn liar

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    That is a good idea. But he doesn't use it that often and I really don't like Facebook. At all. And knowing myself, I'd probably just fluster all over the page. :eusa_doh:

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    Yeah, precisely. :grin:
    I'd be the same.

    Yes, thank God Facebook doesn't tell you that. Otherwise he'd for sure send a message to the fake account (which is of a girl) and my friend who also uses that one would find out that by 'stalking my secret crush' I didn't mean what she thinks...
     
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    I would give it a try, it might work out better for you than you think. Maybe he likes you too, you'll never know if you don't give it a try, it worked out pretty well for my boyfriend :wink:
     
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    You just have no idea how many thousand times I've just sat there starring at my crush's every single post/photo. Can't believe someone else apart from me would do that!? XD haha Im just feeling the same way you do...
     
  10. BoiGeorge

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    Ahhh, what I am missing out on by not having Facebook :grin: hehe
     
  11. funnylion

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    I tend to do the same but with Twitter. Most of the time that's much easier because not very many people have their accounts private.
     
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    I photo-stalked my ex before dating him. We're actually friends, though, so I didn't friend him solely for the point of photo-stalking.
     
  13. damn liar

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    Meh, I don't know... I mean, he's straight; everything I know about him points in that direction.
     
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    I do this too. I keep checking up on her so much, it makes me feel like a stalker.:icon_redf
    And if that wasn't enough, I always go for walks hoping to see her..that's really pathetic.

    What makes it even worse though, is the fact that I have more than one crush. I have four.:bang: One of them lives very far away so I don't think I'll ever see her again but that doesn't stop me from looking at her fb page. Another works at Lidl, but I don't know her name and couldn't find her on facebook so I only see her once a week when I go shopping with my mother (who doesn't know that that's the only reason I go with her)...
    The other two, unfortunately, live near me and I've known them for ten years but hasn't really talked to them. Although, at one point I was in a dance class with one of them so we changed together a lot (funny how I seem to remember that, it was a long time ago).

    Don't feel bad about going through their account on fb, at least you don't follow them anywhere in real life.:icon_redf
     
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    Oh, I do love a good FB stalk. Even if it's someone who I'm not at all interested in/out of boredom.

    I don't think I've ever read someone's *entire* FB profile before (thank God). Normally I'd go back a month or two and think 'okay, I should stop now'.
     
  16. damn liar

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    @evora: Worry not, you're not alone. Since November, whenever I see any red car I can't help but hold my breath for a second and hope it's his.

    ... and that he'd see me and ask to go for a ride with him. :eusa_whis

    @Harve: It wasn't that long. :icon_razz He doesn't share much with the regular peasants.