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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Dublin Boy, Apr 22, 2013.

  1. Dublin Boy

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    Well I have just decided to make a big decision, one of my bosses at work, is a great person & I consider her a good friend, she is on my FB & I have decided to send her a message & tell her that I am Gay.

    My heart is racing & I am scared senseless, but I feel that I want to do it, I like her to much to not be honest with her, she thought that I was getting together with one of the girls at work at one point :slight_smile:

    This may be a shock to her I know, why am I so scared of telling her?

    Update later Guys :slight_smile:
     
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    All the best :grin:
     
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    Hope it goes well for you!
     
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    Good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    Good luck, it starts here!!
     
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    Thanks everyone (&&&)
     
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    Hope it goes well! :thumbsup:
     
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    Good luck.:thumbsup:
     
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    Well Guys, I have got a message back from my friend :slight_smile:

    My darling dear friend, thank you for your trust in me. You know I will always love you to bits - above all else I want you to be happy. I am in on Friday, we will hug each other for a long time ! With my love, as ever, S x

    Wow, that has made me happy & I am so relieved :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations! (!) :thumbsup: :eusa_danc
     
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    Wow, great news! :slight_smile: Congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
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    One of your bosses? I'm glad she's a good friend, otherwise you'd have good reason to be scared. I'd worry one of my bosses is homophobic enough to penalize you for it at work somehow. But if you feel you know her well enough, best of luck to you. Telling people is such a rush when you're still mostly in the closet. :grin:

    EDIT: Wow, just saw your update. Congrats!
     
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    Awesome news, Dub! Glad it worked out the way you wanted it to. :grin:
     
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    Congratulations :slight_smile:
     
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    That is awesome(!)
     
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    that's nice man... Congratz!! would be nice to have some one like her as a boss
     
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    MAJOR WIN!!
    That is amazing!! :grin:
     
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    Seriously good reply, and hope it goes well on Friday. Enjoy the hug!