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**Gerry** · 4th Apr 2008, 11:51 PM

Ok, so I hang out with people and one of them is my friend who is straight and he is constantly realigning himself? Btw, realigning is -- not to be gross -- but fixing yourself down there so you're more comfortable. Why do so many guys do that? And I've only noticed straight guys doing it. All the gay guys I've been with and none have done it. My friend does it in public when anyone is around and people can obviously see and notice what he's doing. I think that a lot of guys make it into a habit, does anyone know why? Lol. I can say that I honestly have not done that before and have never had the "need" to. Lol.

SamAlex728 · 5th Apr 2008, 12:10 AM

ive had 2 do that b4, but i dont do it when someones looking

GGGGGRRRRROOOOOSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!

5th Apr 2008, 12:53 AM

Perhaps straight guys wear satin boxers that ride up on their crotches. I adjust when my boxers ride me. You can also get a lot of adjustments by sagging your pants.

5th Apr 2008, 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Nicvcer

Perhaps straight guys wear satin boxers that ride up on their crotches.

That would be it. I was forever adjusting.

Commando or boxer briefs solve that problem

5th Apr 2008, 01:59 AM

everyone dose it over here lol, its mostly a habit after puberty i think, and ya i noticed its exclusive to straight guys...umm

CrimsonThunder · 5th Apr 2008, 03:23 AM

I do it too.

Perhaps I'm straight? :O

5th Apr 2008, 04:01 AM

I do it constantly - I'm never comfortable it seems...

Alex89 · 5th Apr 2008, 05:47 AM

Depends on your underwear...and some guys can do it without thinking as an assurance of dominance in certain situations, such as meeting new people their subconscious deems "threatening" or in crowded places you may get pushed around.

Just like some straight guys deepen their voices and straight girls raise their pitch when meeting attractive members of the opposite sex without realising they're doing it. =)

5th Apr 2008, 12:46 PM

I do it a lot too. In fact, all my straight friends don't do it; I'm the only one that does it.
Does that mean they're all gay and I'm straight (I feel like an outcast again

)

I am thinking of replacing my boxers to boxer briefs, seems more comfortable

kramer362 · 5th Apr 2008, 02:02 PM

haha i do this all the time, but i don't make it a point to have other people see or anything.

Especially after I've been sitting a while i get the 'batwings' that's what makes me adjust more than anything

**Gerry** · 5th Apr 2008, 02:04 PM

Thanks for the replies. But how do I address him about it, I mean it's not once in a while it's everyday so many times a day and gets embarrassing in public places. Lol

InaRut · 5th Apr 2008, 02:05 PM

HAhaahaa I think it's just a comfort thing. Depends on what your wearing.

Or maybe they just like showing off the fact that they have, "Junk" lol

Edit: Is it really something that you need to comfront him about...I mean if you did that to me I'd be a bit embarrased.

5th Apr 2008, 02:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by InaRut

HAhaahaa I think it's just a comfort thing. Depends on what your wearing.

Or maybe they just like showing off the fact that they have, "Junk" lol

Edit: Is it really something that you need to comfront him about...I mean if you did that to me I'd be a bit embarrased.

Phil, i need to tell you now. Im sick and tired of you adjusting your cock in public, it really annoys me, and if you don't stop we can't be friends anymore kk?

Okay, now thats out of the way, wanna get some ice cream?

kramer362 · 5th Apr 2008, 02:19 PM

tell him not everyone wants to see him flippin his junk around in public

5th Apr 2008, 02:28 PM

Ya know, I'll admit that I do it from time to time. I guess it's just part of a straight guy's instinct? Who knows.

panda · 5th Apr 2008, 02:41 PM

It all started with baseball players.They do in front of millions.

5th Apr 2008, 02:45 PM

Speaking of baseball... how are them Blue Jays? Hehe!

Étoile · 5th Apr 2008, 04:43 PM

I do it too but only when my "spin top" as my aunt used to tell me to say when I was younger gets uncomfortable in my boxers. Don't see why someone would do it constantly; 1 or 2 times is understandable but after a while it gets annoying and gross.

panda · 5th Apr 2008, 06:58 PM

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panda · 5th Apr 2008, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mick

Speaking of baseball... how are them Blue Jays? Hehe!

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Yankees---------------2

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Boston Red Sox---------2 ---------- HE HE

4th Apr 2008, 11:51 PM	#1
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,551 Join Date: Jan 2008	Why do Straight Guys do This? Ok, so I hang out with people and one of them is my friend who is straight and he is constantly realigning himself? Btw, realigning is -- not to be gross -- but fixing yourself down there so you're more comfortable. Why do so many guys do that? And I've only noticed straight guys doing it. All the gay guys I've been with and none have done it. My friend does it in public when anyone is around and people can obviously see and notice what he's doing. I think that a lot of guys make it into a habit, does anyone know why? Lol. I can say that I honestly have not done that before and have never had the "need" to. Lol. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

5th Apr 2008, 12:10 AM	#2
SamAlex728 EC Addict Full Member Gender: I'm a real boy! Orientation: Expert Cockgazer Out Status: Open Flame Location: Hippieville, Oregon Age: 16 Posts: 2,842 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? ive had 2 do that b4, but i dont do it when someones looking GGGGGRRRRROOOOOSSSSSSSSSS!!!!! __________________ "Boys are dumb. Men are pigs. Females are fucking crazy. Makes life difficult." -- Me

5th Apr 2008, 12:53 AM	#3
Nicvcer Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? Perhaps straight guys wear satin boxers that ride up on their crotches. I adjust when my boxers ride me. You can also get a lot of adjustments by sagging your pants.

5th Apr 2008, 01:59 AM	#5
Bader Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? everyone dose it over here lol, its mostly a habit after puberty i think, and ya i noticed its exclusive to straight guys...umm

5th Apr 2008, 03:23 AM	#6
CrimsonThunder Seventh Son of a Seventh Son Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Bi Out Status: Friends, Work, Whoever knows Location: South Australian! Posts: 3,536 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? I do it too. Perhaps I'm straight? :O __________________ Biggest car buff around.

5th Apr 2008, 04:01 AM	#7
Connor Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? I do it constantly - I'm never comfortable it seems...

5th Apr 2008, 05:47 AM	#8
Alex89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 22 Posts: 555 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? Depends on your underwear...and some guys can do it without thinking as an assurance of dominance in certain situations, such as meeting new people their subconscious deems "threatening" or in crowded places you may get pushed around. Just like some straight guys deepen their voices and straight girls raise their pitch when meeting attractive members of the opposite sex without realising they're doing it. =) __________________ *Student Game Designer*

5th Apr 2008, 12:46 PM	#9
GunStarre Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? I do it a lot too. In fact, all my straight friends don't do it; I'm the only one that does it. Does that mean they're all gay and I'm straight (I feel like an outcast again ) I am thinking of replacing my boxers to boxer briefs, seems more comfortable

5th Apr 2008, 02:02 PM	#10
kramer362 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: western new york Age: 26 Posts: 400 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? haha i do this all the time, but i don't make it a point to have other people see or anything. Especially after I've been sitting a while i get the 'batwings' that's what makes me adjust more than anything

5th Apr 2008, 02:04 PM	#11
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,551 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? Thanks for the replies. But how do I address him about it, I mean it's not once in a while it's everyday so many times a day and gets embarrassing in public places. Lol __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

5th Apr 2008, 02:05 PM	#12
InaRut EC's Nu-Disco Walrus Full Member Gender: IRL Yaoi Character Orientation: (｡◕‿◕。) Out Status: ㅎ_ㅎ Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 7,111 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? HAhaahaa I think it's just a comfort thing. Depends on what your wearing. Or maybe they just like showing off the fact that they have, "Junk" lol Edit: Is it really something that you need to comfront him about...I mean if you did that to me I'd be a bit embarrased. __________________ "The first duty of every Starfleet Officer is to the truth. Whether it's scientific truth, historical truth, or personal truth. It is the guiding principle to which Starfleet is based. If you can't find it within yourself, to tell the truth about what happened, then you don't deserve to where that uniform."

5th Apr 2008, 02:19 PM	#14
kramer362 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: western new york Age: 26 Posts: 400 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? tell him not everyone wants to see him flippin his junk around in public

5th Apr 2008, 02:28 PM	#15
Mick Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? Ya know, I'll admit that I do it from time to time. I guess it's just part of a straight guy's instinct? Who knows.

5th Apr 2008, 02:41 PM	#16
panda EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Toronto,Canada Age: 67 Posts: 4,653 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? It all started with baseball players.They do in front of millions.

5th Apr 2008, 02:45 PM	#17
Mick Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? Speaking of baseball... how are them Blue Jays? Hehe!

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Étoile He ate my heart Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: 95% Gay, 5% Cheesecake Out Status: Out to everyone Location: The Peach State Age: 20 Posts: 1,575 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Why do Straight Guys do This? I do it too but only when my "spin top" as my aunt used to tell me to say when I was younger gets uncomfortable in my boxers. Don't see why someone would do it constantly; 1 or 2 times is understandable but after a while it gets annoying and gross.

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