Drag

I think getting asked to dress in drag to support a queer event is just stupid. It just makes people think thats all we do.

I would say the minority of gay people dress as girls, so why is it such a big thing? Shouldn't the event be about BEING YOURSELF so why don't you go dressed as you normally do.

 

If you want to do it, do it. Don't do it just for the sake of trying it, It's not something that you're better or worse for doing. I've never quite gotten it myself. I mean, if people want to do it, I'm not going to stop them or anything. However, boys look cuter as boys - not as burly women.

 

when i watch a drag show I'm down right mind blow I loved watching the one drag show i went to it was awesome i would love to watch more but to actually do it not for me. (unless it was Halloween then all bets are off LOL)

 

I watched a drag show when i was in melbourne, it was entertaining and funny but nothing i'd go out of my way to watch again.

 

Really, it's more insulting to me than anything when a person believes that dressing in drag is part of our "culture" and that it will sway others to be more tolerant. Quite a shame.

 

I think you'd do excellent drag, Micah... but I completely understand it not being "your thing."

I guess you could go by the "don't knock it till you've tried it" axiom but I don't think that holds in all cases.

Still, would help you when you next play "I never."

 

Well inasmuch as queer people can be said to have a unified culture (and I think you can make the argument there is a distinct queer culture or history at least in Canada and the US), drag is totally and utterly part of the fabric of "our" history. I don't think that means we should all have to dress up in genderbending clothing/costumes but saying that drag isn't part of the gay rights movement is like saying Martin Luther King Jr. wasn't part of the civil rights movement.

And I don't think anyone thinks drag increases tolerance so much as it challenges preconceptions. If drag makes you somewhat uncomfortable, well... that's part of the idea. The other part is that drag queens are often hilarious and pick cool songs to "sing." :icon_bigg

 

If you really want to give it a try then go ahead. I think that there are other ways of expressing all those things without having to dress in drag. But if you want to, more power to you!

 

My immediate instinct when reading this is to say that surely doing something you don't feel comfortable doing, or don't feel represents you, is not the best way to raise awareness and increase tolerance. Rather, to do so seems to be you conforming to what others feel you should be like, rather than what you are like. The way I see it, the LGBT community is as diverse as any other random group of people - some people like drag, others wouldn't go near it. Stereotypes and media representation aside, I'd say that both drag and no drag are equally valid as representations of the LGBT community, diverse as it is.

I'd just be yourself, and if you don't mind having a bit of fun, do it; but if it makes you feel uncomfortable, or you feel that you'd be misrepresenting yourself, then I'd be vocal about it.

 

....Priscilla Queen of the Desert...oh I so totally feel like watching that movie now

Also, I personally think a drag show would be quite entertaining, and wouldn't mind going to see one at some point.

 

*The Tranny Chimes in*
The history of drag is fascinating. I think gay men get insulted because they are expected to love drag, when being Queer is so incredibly complex. I get insulted too, when I'm told that I'm "in drag" when in truth, I live my life in "drag" as a man. I think drag is an expression of any kind of over-the-top sexuality/gender stereotyping done by anyone, straight, gay, lesbian, bi or trans....(Madonna and Cher are SUCH drag queens)
One of my favorite recent memories was watching my friend Kale perform at a showcase for Trans performers in L.A. called Trans/Giving. Kale was born in female body and is doing Hormone (Testosterone) therapy to become more masculine, which is how he feels. He normally has a beard and his arms are quite hairy, and his voice has dropped to a husky cuteness. For the show, he shaved, put on a blonde wig and makeup and performed three songs from Annie ("Tomorrow" brought down the house) in a blouse and a skirt. Now, THAT's Drag...spoofing your birth gender by performing in drag as a girl and sounding to all the world like a cute gay man!
When I go to the Goth clubs, I love to dress up and put on false eyelashes, wigs, and extreme makeup; however, I have nothing to prove, except that I like to travel in a different dimension and dance a lot.
Micah, you'd make an adorable girl, but if it makes you miserable, don't do it. The fun of drag is being someone else temporarily.
xo
Darya

 

I'd like to try it, if only for a day I would definitely not be comfortable like that though heh, it'd just be for fun or something ^_^

I like to take the 'don't knock it till you've tried it' approach.

 

I think drag is pretty cool. I think that it should eventually help to show people that behaving unstereotypically for your gender is OK and even fun. But not when it makes it seem ridiculous, like some kind of panto dame. When men walk down the street in dresses and women in suits and nobody bats an eyelid, then I'll be really pleased.

 

Micah...another good topic might be what is Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans "culture".

 

hmmm.... i cant see me doing that...

But in saying that i go to an alboys school so during my scholing i have had to dress up as a girl many times for drama ect...

 

Leather, drag, cupcakes and pedophiles. (you mean steriotypical culture? )

 

Well, for Glamour Day in a couple weeks I'll most likely drag as well- but hey! Everything's fun at least the first time you try it right?