Hi, In another thread I read about a woman complaining about oversized breasts and the problems/grief it causes her. This got me thinking about overly endowed men. I know it is supposed to highly prized and very masculine but it must have drawbacks. From partners comfortably accommodating it, to diminished sexual gratification from lack of accomadation, to simply being a pain to deal with. I have heard lots of woman complain about large breasts but never a man about his oversized equipment. Are these obvious complaints/problems closeted because it is supposed to be such a trophy? You hear about overly attractive people being lonely too for people are too intimidated to approach them. I have seen the porn with overly endowed males and it doesn't work for me. All I see are oversized issues. Any comments?
This probably would be better in the anonymous section.. I don't see a lot of guys rushing to talk about their genitals in the open lol I'll go ahead though because I have no shame. It can be a bother at times - underwear bunches up, sometimes I sit on my balls which hurts, sometimes when I masturbate my balls come up and hit me in the hand (which is like nut tapping yourself), some guys won't let you top them, you almost never get a 'full' blowjob unless the guy can deep throat and has his tonsils out, if you get an erection in public randomly EVERYONE knows, once you have slept with someone they have to tell all of their friends just how big you are so by the end of it all everyone knows about your dick, etc. There are lots of issues.
I think that's more a male genitalia problem in general rather than anything to do with being well endowed. It happens to me all the time, and I'm very happily average.
No experience--I'm not sure where I rank, but I don't feel like I'm huge. Doesn't every guy have to coil his penis up to fit it in his shorts? Joking aside... (I'd guess I'm more or less average, but it's hard to say for sure--I've seen guys nude in a locker room, but making comparisons is hard.) I have heard a lot of rumbles that suggest that while a big penis is impressive, it can be...difficult to work with sexually. At least for the partner. I've even heard people who've gone from Giant to Economy Size, and have been thrilled at the change. You don't hear this mentioned much, since in our culture Big Penis=Real Man. Or such similar comments. Aesthetically, I prefer something on the smaller size...I think big dominates too much.
I much prefer something average. Once you get over 8", it's just becomes ornamental. Nice to look at, but pretty much useless for anything I want to do with it.
I'd much rather have sex with someone with a near average sized penis, a large penis is annoying to work with and not fun, if you're blowing him your jaw gets sore fast and bottoming can be painful. I've had sex with guys with very large penises and it was nowhere near as good as with guys with average sized ones.
This is not nessacerely true. I have been with a variety of sized men and my experences have not been what you think. I dated 2 guys in my 20's Danny and Mark. Both had about the same size which was 8 inches on the thicker side, cut and about the same package completely to look at. Mark made sex horrible every time where as Danny could even get rough and it all felt good with never the first bit of pain. Now I was at that time a experenced bottom and did not need a guy to be slow at the beginning to avoid pain. (I had good muscle control by then) My last BF Ken had 7 inches on the nose, adverage thickness cut and not one time did we have sex where it was not the most horrible pain even several min in he would hit something that just hurt like hell and if I dared say anything he would make it worse. Needless to say I avoided intercorse with him. I thought something was wrong with me until he gave me to his best friend who was about the same size and we had a busy weekend and it was pure pleasure. Now getting to my current man. The first time I saw his package I wanted to run out of the room because it is huge looking and I knew I would hurt like hell! I was peased when the experence was wonderfull. He is a little over 10 and thick and to this day he has yet to hurt me and he can move durring sex. I kept waiting for him to hit something unpleasent, or tear me up or something along those lines. He has a extremely healthy sex drive and we do it at least once a day at the min. So I can only conclude it is not the size, but the experence of the bottom with control and the top's ability to use what he has properly mixed with forplay and love between the two which sets the mood right and condom use or not. Now BJs are a diffrent story with a big one, and it is a challange and only so much can be done until the jaw mussles streach out enough if possable. I tried to keep it as G rated as possable. June
It's mainly the quality of the top, and the relaxation of the bottom to be able to take it. There is plenty of space down there, so long as you go slow and use plenty of lube and are relaxed, there should be no issues with normal people, even up to 12" or so (Largest recorded human penis size). Assuming your clean and stuff down there. Personally, it's not much an issue for me. I'd rather be with smaller guys a lot of the time to be honest since it's easier to get in and warm up with but there is that certain girth limit that really does something extraordinary when it's done right. Anyone who works it right can do good, or bad, considering. Girth and oral is a different thing altogether though, that can get down right exhausting it you stay on it the whole time. I'm slightly larger than average, and that really doesn't bother me except I'm more a shower than a grower and fitting things can be a bit, awkward, what with it swinging around and all. I'd rather be a bit smaller in that regard; but I've known bigger guys who were smaller than me! Lucky :***:'s :lol:. As a bottom in general though I don't worry bout my size, long as it's there.
I'm guess I'm big or it at least looks that way because I'm short and it's above average. But honestly I always wondered about that because a lot of people always go "I want it big" or "I need something long that I can work with" but they are never specific. It's as if they're asking for something that they know nothing about. Personally, Girth is most important to me. Length is cool but too long seems like it would be too much. So I would prefer short and stubby to long and beefy, unless it's the man himself. :lol:
I would much rather have sex with a guy with a smaller penis. Big dicks are nice to look at but I dont want one in me thank you very much!
Awe. Haha I'm more or less average and I don't care really what size dick a guy has as long as he has a dick! I'm still a virgin no Shane but like I said I don't care what size dick he has as long as I love him and he loves me
My dick is quite above average and it has its disadvantages; *The guys I've been in a situation with where we could have sex (which, admittedly, is not many at all) have flat out refused to even try bottoming for me after seeing the size of my dick. It is no fun getting cock-blocked by your own cock. *It's hard to hid a boner in public *It's REALLY painful if I get a boner while wearing skinny jeans *On a similar note, the crotch space given in pants is never sufficient even when I'm flaccid *The endless threads of people saying that they prefer smaller dicks because larger guys don't know what they're doing gets pretty demoralising after a while *When a guy literally shouts 'fuck, that's huge!' in surprise upon seeing it for the first time and you start laughing it kinda ruins the mood... *When my friends found out my measurements the 'tripod' jokes got really old really quick...
I'm average, and I'm surprised everyone is saying "I'd rather have a small one!" I have looked at online social media sites that deal with...sex, haha, and I don't think I've ever seen "a small dick is fine!" It's usually "I WANT A BIG MASCULINE MAN THAT IS HUGE!" As someone who hasn't had sex, no matter what you try,it does bother me. I do feel like size matters. I think we are trying to kid ourselves here. I really have to laugh at the fact that people are turned off by a big dick. I mean,come on. Unless it's literally 100 Inches long, what's the problem? At the end of the day, at least it's nice to look at.
I truely don't care how big his dick is as long as he gives it to me regularly! Oh and he does not torture me with it, he has to know how to put it on me right. And yes I love watching my partner in the nude and he does parade around for me showing it off driving me crazy. Most cis women I am friends with are size queens, the bigger the better, but think balls are gross? I said most because I ran into one who felt her husband was too big for her to enjoy it. You are right, pretty much all gay men I saw profiles online for wanted big masculine straight or straight acting men with a big dick. Of corse they rarely get what they want so they complain they cant get a man. It puzzles me why not be happy with the man who come to you and accept what he is and what he has and be thankfull. I am and had he had 5 inches I would be just as happy. My FWB last year had between 5 and 6 and I still say he had the sexiest body I ever saw in real life on a man. The sex was great with him too and I could have been happy with him had he wanted that. June
