Why are so many guys ashamed of their penises?

Hahaha amazing post!Im wondering the same,i mean most of the men want to hear compliments about their size no matter how big they are.To me personally..i got so many kinky fetishes that penis does not matter soo much to me.Although i wouldnt like someone with a penis in a size of a shrimp,but i wouldnt like a penis like elephants either :lol: I believe that size matters but not always,to me its not a big deal,since you have so many ways to enjoy sex,and have multiple orgasms with different methods .

 

I don't know why, but it's clear that regardless of sexual orientation, many men think the bigger the penis, the better.

Personally, I think get turned off by size. Part of that is just due to stories about problems being too big can cause.

Years back, I regularly changed in a locker room with a guy that wasn't particularly well equipped. The funny thing, though, is that he sticks in my mind because he seemed very comfortable with his body. That is more of a turn-on than a penis so big it makes a baseball bat look like a toothpick.

 

For myself, I'm actually a bit under the supposed "average" (or rather, on the lower end). So I'm self-conscious not because I'm not huge, but because I don't measure up to the majority of men. That I feel is a slightly more legitimate concern than just not being porn-star huge.

On the other hand, from what I understand I'm still big enough that I could satisfy my partner (read: hit the prostate) if I were to be topping, so I'm a little less concerned. It's just something I need to remind myself of.

 

No body issues here except some weight loss. Which is happening.

 

pssh...total bunk

I am of slightly better than average size but it works and it's enjoyed....totally vulgar I am sure but I just want to be honest

I have no qualms whatsoever about size, I am happy...so you can count me as one

Foxface

 

To be honest, I'm not even particularly attracted to penises. I certainly like male bodies, and I don't consider penises to be particularly unattractive, but they aren't what is important. Size is irrelevant.

Hey, look at me, I'm talking like I've got first hand knowledge of these things...

 

I guess some men think the bigger, the better. But I can't really say from hands on experience. *sigh*

If I magically grew one over night though, I'd certainly not complain about the size. No, I'd be very nice and take good care of it. :lol:
Okay it got a little weird there, but it's true. xD

 

I wouldn't say I'm ashamed, but I'm not really proud either. I've never had a good intimate relationship with anyone, and I think that it's a problem for a lot of us.

A lot of you will say "oh it doesn't matter!" But you've probably had sex and feel like you can do it.

It's been driven into our minds that the bigger, the better.

So, frankly, I think this is a point that just can't be fixed until you actually go through it.

 

This.

 

This kind of language doesn't help.

 

Sweet! ^___^

 

i am not ashamed of my penis

 

I also 100% echo these sentiments.

 

This.

I don't think guys are ashamed per se, just more so nervous, anxious, self-conscious....Hell pick one. :lol:

 

To be honest, I never felt ashamed or feared rejection of my penis size when I'm hooking up with guys. I've had some shares of "malfunction" but I feel 2 guys can relate and it's not a big deal. If I was straight though, I would definitely feel ashamed and embarassed. I feel girls can't relate to the "mind of the penis" so they are more likely to be judgmental. Just my observations.

 

Hm. Ok, speaking from experience...

Never been ashamed or self-conscious about penis-size, although I am of the 'grower not a shower' demographic. Am of average size when that's required (ahem). Find penises extremely attractive and don't understand why any gay guy wouldn't.

Was in a relationship with a guy who was very well endowed. Visually he was quite impressive. Unfortunately, he really only cared about whether or not he was having a good time, so the novelty wore off rather quickly and then I didn't care.

Most of the other guys I've been with were around my size or smaller. Had a good time with them based more on what we were doing, how we felt about each other, and how interested they were in whether or not I was having fun too, rather than how big they were.

To rephrase something I posted here a while back:

If you're bottoming or giving oral, it doesn't matter how big you are.

If you're topping or getting oral being average or close to it (in either direction) is going to work just fine for everyone concerned (really big guys make your jaw tired after a while btw. I can get...creative with an avg. guy much more easily and keep going longer without having to pause to give my mouth a break).

Most anything else you're likely going to do, it doesn't matter how big you are. And there are a lot of possible (and fun!) things one can potentially do

My 2c worth,

Todd

 

Most of my straight female friends don't care about penis size as long as they like they guy and he finds other ways to pleasure her.

I know this doesn't mean much from me because I am a lesbian but I think confidence is the sexiest thing and a guy won't have a hard time hooking up if he is confident and conscious of his partner.

 

I do think men on average tend to put more stock into physical attributes, and wouldn't be surprised if somewhere out there were a group of guys who'd run and never look back if someone didn't meet their size 'requirements', though, confidence would yield a larger size of potential hook ups, so it probably wouldn't matter at that point.