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Did you choose to be straight?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MichaelB, May 9, 2013.

  1. MichaelB

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    This video is fantastic
     
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    I liked it! Most of the footage shown shows that most people today are pretty open-minded about sexuality. Maybe the editor cherry picked the footage :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I didn't watch the video yet but I tried the options and sex with men left me wanting women but even with women something was missing which was love. I helped a girl come out as gay and she told me about when she stated thinking about women and not men that explained a lot. I would still like to know if being gay is both being born that way and by upbringing.
     
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    I liked that last one. "OMG GAYS CHOOSE TO BE GAY" 10 seconds later: "Well, maybe it's not a choice at all"
     
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    Not knowing I was sexually molested by my mother left me very confused and I was attracted to damaged women that hated men and attracted male molesters in my teens. The girl I helped come out as a lesbian I found out decades latter molested the male kids she babysitter for as a teen and that she was molested by her father. I question if she would be considered gay by her actions? She at times tried to live as straight but always went back to women.
     
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    Sadly, I know there are millions of gay men and women who could honestly say 'yes' if asked.
     
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    Basically every trait of man is up to a degree of nature and nurture.
    But I believe that sexual orientation is more on the nature side.