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total mo · 12th Apr 2008, 07:17 AM

there's this guy, Im not gonna reveal his name, and we've been talking on msn. just 10 minutes ago, he wanted me and him to do something on cam. out of kindness and pity, i agreed with him. and right after the session, he just blocked me. talk about rude much! so i guess he just wants to see me on cam doing what he likes. if i knew, i wouldve blocked him first, but atleast i get the honors of not being a JERK!

12th Apr 2008, 11:51 AM

lol =(

joeyconnick · 12th Apr 2008, 11:51 AM

That does sound pretty bad... but maybe he was just incredibly embarrassed? People have really weird notions of appropriate etiquette when it comes to IM I've found. A lot of people's default seems to be "run away... run away!"

But if he's just being an asshole, that is one of the most asshole-y things I've ever heard of.

total mo · 12th Apr 2008, 09:37 PM

Well, he is kind of a dork. So I'm thinking you're right, he has the right to be embarassed after what he did on cam. lol!

Austin · 12th Apr 2008, 10:21 PM

interesting...

total mo · 12th Apr 2008, 11:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Latinokid

lol =(

You added me on msn right? You were away when I got it. I hope you wouldn't be a jerk like that guy.

Paul_UK · 13th Apr 2008, 10:10 AM

If it's someone he and you think the mod team should know, please PM me or any of the mods.

Grof142007 · 13th Apr 2008, 01:20 PM

you went on cam for him and not me

hehe i had people do that to me dont worry about it

xavier28 · 13th Apr 2008, 02:16 PM

there are lots of people like that it so sux don't it

simon · 13th Apr 2008, 04:11 PM

what a rude jerk.

13th Apr 2008, 04:18 PM

lol.. its not someone on here is it??

total mo · 14th Apr 2008, 01:18 AM

Yes, what a rude fucking jerk, isnt he! It is someone in here ofcourse that is why I posted in here. I think he's from around australia. shh..

Tim · 14th Apr 2008, 02:35 AM

This is the reason I hid my webcam (and subsequently accidently forgot WHERE XD), Plus, I have my keyboard in my USB, so couldn't plug it in if I wanted XD

A lot of people become jerks after viewing others on webcams -.- There's a reason I'm skeptical when people invite me to view ~.~

total mo · 14th Apr 2008, 08:28 AM

I'm still thinking of a valid reason why he'd block me. It can't be that I'm ugly, coz prior to that, he was like, "Can i see your peen, pls" and "Im going to bed now, can i see your peen, pls." He also said, "do you want to jerk o together?" and "you're not my type, but your peen is hot".

joeyconnick · 14th Apr 2008, 12:22 PM

Not that I'm saying I approve of this guy's behaviour, but maybe given that it's someone from EC this is not a discussion that should be happening in public? I understand your frustration but there's a difference between venting to friends who have nothing to do with the person who's upset you and then there's dragging a private matter into the open on a forum where despite the fact that this person might (I say "might" because there are two sides to every stories, at least) have behaved rudely, the other party is a member.

For instance, as a real world analogy: say there was a guy who was part of your social circle. And say one day you fucked up and treated him like a jerk. (Because most of us do at times behave in ways that we're later ashamed of.) Now it's one thing if the person you've wronged goes to his own friends and complains about your treatment of him. But if he were to go to the people in your mutual social circle and make the story public? That to me is attempting to deal with one mistake by making another, and two wrongs don't make a right.

14th Apr 2008, 12:27 PM

Wells hes not telling us who it is though, so..

joeyconnick · 14th Apr 2008, 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EthanS

Wells hes not telling us who it is though, so..

Yeah but before it could have just been any random person; now we know it's someone here. I think we could have offered support without needing to know that.

14th Apr 2008, 12:38 PM

Yer now we're suspisious of all da aussies ^_^

panda · 14th Apr 2008, 02:33 PM

The thing that I think of is that any Images can end up on the internet where a million people can see it including any number of people who could effect you life and your future.

total mo · 14th Apr 2008, 02:43 PM

There are a ton of people who go on to ec from australia, so hes is definitely anonymous, and will remain to be.

I just felt really bad about the situation, that I would make a thread about it to get a hug.

12th Apr 2008, 07:17 AM	#1
total mo Banned Gender: Likes penis Orientation: Gay duh! Out Status: The world knows Location: Gaytopia Posts: 832 Join Date: Aug 2007	The rudest person ever! there's this guy, Im not gonna reveal his name, and we've been talking on msn. just 10 minutes ago, he wanted me and him to do something on cam. out of kindness and pity, i agreed with him. and right after the session, he just blocked me. talk about rude much! so i guess he just wants to see me on cam doing what he likes. if i knew, i wouldve blocked him first, but atleast i get the honors of not being a JERK!

12th Apr 2008, 11:51 AM	#2
Latinokid Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The rudest person ever! lol =(

12th Apr 2008, 11:51 AM	#3
joeyconnick sine qua non Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 3,332 Join Date: Apr 2005	Re: The rudest person ever! That does sound pretty bad... but maybe he was just incredibly embarrassed? People have really weird notions of appropriate etiquette when it comes to IM I've found. A lot of people's default seems to be "run away... run away!" But if he's just being an asshole, that is one of the most asshole-y things I've ever heard of.

12th Apr 2008, 09:37 PM	#4
total mo Banned Gender: Likes penis Orientation: Gay duh! Out Status: The world knows Location: Gaytopia Posts: 832 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! Well, he is kind of a dork. So I'm thinking you're right, he has the right to be embarassed after what he did on cam. lol!

12th Apr 2008, 10:21 PM	#5
Austin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people in my life. Location: Orange County, California, USA Age: 19 Posts: 1,790 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: The rudest person ever! interesting... __________________ Can I sail through the changing ocean tides, can I handle the seasons of my life?

13th Apr 2008, 10:10 AM	#7
Paul_UK Former Empty Closets Admin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Bournemouth, UK Age: 47 Posts: 13,155 Join Date: Nov 2004	Re: The rudest person ever! If it's someone he and you think the mod team should know, please PM me or any of the mods. __________________ Paul

13th Apr 2008, 01:20 PM	#8
Grof142007 Dreamer of EC Merchandise Full Member Gender: Sexy Male Orientation: King of Homosexuals Out Status: Openly Gay Location: High Point,North Carolina Age: 22 Posts: 1,652 Join Date: Apr 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! you went on cam for him and not me hehe i had people do that to me dont worry about it __________________ The name is Kevin Dreamer of EC Merchandise EmptyClosets Shop

13th Apr 2008, 02:16 PM	#9
xavier28 Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: ATL/Ellijay Age: 19 Posts: 8 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: The rudest person ever! there are lots of people like that it so sux don't it

13th Apr 2008, 04:11 PM	#10
simon Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: paraparaumu, new zealand Age: 22 Posts: 192 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! what a rude jerk.

13th Apr 2008, 04:18 PM	#11
EthanS Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The rudest person ever! lol.. its not someone on here is it??

14th Apr 2008, 01:18 AM	#12
total mo Banned Gender: Likes penis Orientation: Gay duh! Out Status: The world knows Location: Gaytopia Posts: 832 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! Yes, what a rude fucking jerk, isnt he! It is someone in here ofcourse that is why I posted in here. I think he's from around australia. shh..

14th Apr 2008, 02:35 AM	#13
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: The rudest person ever! This is the reason I hid my webcam (and subsequently accidently forgot WHERE XD), Plus, I have my keyboard in my USB, so couldn't plug it in if I wanted XD A lot of people become jerks after viewing others on webcams -.- There's a reason I'm skeptical when people invite me to view ~.~ __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

14th Apr 2008, 08:28 AM	#14
total mo Banned Gender: Likes penis Orientation: Gay duh! Out Status: The world knows Location: Gaytopia Posts: 832 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! I'm still thinking of a valid reason why he'd block me. It can't be that I'm ugly, coz prior to that, he was like, "Can i see your peen, pls" and "Im going to bed now, can i see your peen, pls." He also said, "do you want to jerk o together?" and "you're not my type, but your peen is hot".

14th Apr 2008, 12:22 PM	#15
joeyconnick sine qua non Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 3,332 Join Date: Apr 2005	Re: The rudest person ever! Not that I'm saying I approve of this guy's behaviour, but maybe given that it's someone from EC this is not a discussion that should be happening in public? I understand your frustration but there's a difference between venting to friends who have nothing to do with the person who's upset you and then there's dragging a private matter into the open on a forum where despite the fact that this person might (I say "might" because there are two sides to every stories, at least) have behaved rudely, the other party is a member. For instance, as a real world analogy: say there was a guy who was part of your social circle. And say one day you fucked up and treated him like a jerk. (Because most of us do at times behave in ways that we're later ashamed of.) Now it's one thing if the person you've wronged goes to his own friends and complains about your treatment of him. But if he were to go to the people in your mutual social circle and make the story public? That to me is attempting to deal with one mistake by making another, and two wrongs don't make a right.

14th Apr 2008, 12:27 PM	#16
EthanS Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The rudest person ever! Wells hes not telling us who it is though, so..

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14th Apr 2008, 12:38 PM	#18
EthanS Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The rudest person ever! Yer now we're suspisious of all da aussies ^_^

14th Apr 2008, 02:33 PM	#19
panda EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Toronto,Canada Age: 67 Posts: 4,653 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! The thing that I think of is that any Images can end up on the internet where a million people can see it including any number of people who could effect you life and your future.

14th Apr 2008, 02:43 PM	#20
total mo Banned Gender: Likes penis Orientation: Gay duh! Out Status: The world knows Location: Gaytopia Posts: 832 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: The rudest person ever! There are a ton of people who go on to ec from australia, so hes is definitely anonymous, and will remain to be. I just felt really bad about the situation, that I would make a thread about it to get a hug.