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Old 14th Apr 2008, 01:26 AM   #1
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Default Makes you think!

This was sent to me by my sister who lives in England... Its a scary world we live in!

An important message from the Police - please pass this along to all the women you know.....

This actually happened a few weeks ago on the M3 FLEET SERVICES!!!

It was early evening and a young girl stopped to get petrol.
She filled her tank and walked into the store to pay for her petrol. The cashier told her 'Don't pay for your petrol
yet.....walk around the store for a while and act as if you're picking up some other things to buy. A man just got into the back of your car. I've
called the police and they're on their way'. When the police arrived, they found the man in the back seat of the girl's car and asked him what he was doing. He replied, he was joining a gang and the initiation to join is to kidnap a woman and bring her back to the gang to be raped by every member of the gang. If the woman was still alive by the time they finish with her then they let her go.

According to the police that night, there is a new gang forming here originating from London. The scary part of this is because the guy didn't
have a weapon on him. The police could only charge him with trespassing.... He's back on the street and free to try again.

Please be aware of what's going on around you and for your family and friends. LADIES you or one of your family
and friends could be the next victim.

Please forward this on to everyone you know. Please do not discard this message it is very important that everyone knows what is happening.

Please be careful when leaving your vehicle and make sure it is ALWAYS Locked to prevent this from happening to you.

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Subject: POLICE INFORMATION - NOT A JOKE - ACTUAL SAFETY ADVICE


first bit is mainly for women, but boys please read it and send it on to any women you care about. The second bit is a warning to all of us!


Some sound advice for us all as we all sometimes forget to take our common sense with us when we go out. This is from Northants Police..Women....
In light of the recent kidnapping and now murder of Leigh Mathews, I think it is important to read the following info for your own safety.
Things women should know to stay safe: Please Take the time to read these pointers. There may just be one or two you hadn't thought of.

After reading this, forward it to someone you care about. It never hurts to be careful in this crazy
world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!
2. If a robber
asks for your handbag, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.
Toss it away from you.... he is probably more interested in your handbag than you and he will go for the handbag. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the boot of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm through the hole and start waving. The driver won't see you but everybody else will.
This has saved lives.

4.Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their cheque book, or making a list).

DON'T DO THIS! A predator could be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,
and attack you. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a car park:

A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and check the back seat.

B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most attackers surprise their victims by
pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.


C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest
your car, you may want to walk back into the shop, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY.(And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the lift instead of the stairs. Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot.


7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!


8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear babies' cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life.
A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of
crazies in it and it's better safe than sorry.


NORTHAMPTONSHIRE POLICE - Visit us at
http://www.northants.police.uk/
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Old 14th Apr 2008, 01:51 AM   #2
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Wow, I so didn't need to read that while sitting at 2 AM all alone in a dark house... lol...

Though, that knock out the tail lights and stick hand out thing is very interesting, never even though of that, but I can easily see how it could be very helpful.
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WOAH. As if I'm not paranoid enough already.

Good points there though. I'll keep them in mind.
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I think this is fake.

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When the police arrived, they found the man in the back seat of the girl's car and asked him what he was doing. He replied, he was joining a gang and the initiation to join is to kidnap a woman and bring her back to the gang to be raped by every member of the gang. If the woman was still alive by the time they finish with her then they let her go.

According to the police that night, there is a new gang forming here originating from London. The scary part of this is because the guy didn't
have a weapon on him. The police could only charge him with trespassing.... He's back on the street and free to try again.
So if I go up to a police officer and say "I'm about to murder that person by strangling him and then going to chuck him into a river." I will be able to just leave and be free?
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Great, now I'm scared to get up and go past the dark kitchen cause I heard noises, chances are it was the cats, but that's not how my mind works >_< There's a reason I avoid watching horror movies and CSI and such when not in my bed, with my cover wrapped around me and door closed :3 I get scared very easily >.> I think it was the whole serial killer and crying baby sounds thing... As I open the door 3-5 times a night to let my cats in when I hear scratching at the door...

From now on, screw them XD, They can come in when it's light out and my mom's awake
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I think this is fake.

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When the police arrived, they found the man in the back seat of the girl's car and asked him what he was doing. He replied, he was joining a gang and the initiation to join is to kidnap a woman and bring her back to the gang to be raped by every member of the gang. If the woman was still alive by the time they finish with her then they let her go.

According to the police that night, there is a new gang forming here originating from London. The scary part of this is because the guy didn't
have a weapon on him. The police could only charge him with trespassing.... He's back on the street and free to try again.
So if I go up to a police officer and say "I'm about to murder that person by strangling him and then going to chuck him into a river." I will be able to just leave and be free?
My mom's boyfriend is a policeman, and basically, unless they actually DO something, you can't arrest them. He complains about it on a regular basis.

It's a sad but true fact.
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I think it's a fake. (someone check snopes?) but the advice is good regardless.
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Default Re: Makes you think!

This is fake.

I emailed Northamptonshire Police earlier with a link to this thread and received this reply:

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Hello Paul,

The attached information has not come from Northamptonshire Police and is neither recognised or condoned by us.

I do not think that this advice would be prudent even in the very extreme circumstances below and is certainly based upon urban myth rather than any fact.

It is important that everyone takes steps to ensure their personal safety but the below is certainly only likely to lead people to be very fearful and without good reason. Sensible precautions such as not leaving property on display and making sure that your valuables are secure.

We do not issue specific guidance on serial killers' and have never heard of the 'crying baby' tactic.

Thank you for bringing this to our attention, we will be trying to trace the source of this e mail.
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