So, do you have any preferences on masculinity and femininity (guys)

I like a happy medium. I don't really like guys who act macho 24/7 or act super feminine 24/7 personally. If I have a tendency it would be masculine just a bit more than feminine.

 

I like a bit of a mix, I don't like it when people try to classify themselves so heavily as masculine OR feminine. If a person is just like that, I'll like it, but when people try to act macho or try to be feminine all I see is a guy who hates himself.

 

If your entire personality is stereotypically feminine or stereotypically masculine then I will get exasperated. For me you need to have mix of characteristics that cover the spectrum.
However on the whole, leaning a bit towards the masculine side (but not too much) is what I want.

edit: haha two posts while I was typing that are the same!

 

I don't really mind, but I would usually go for the medium-masculine guys. I don't mind being with a feminine guy at all, though, so I picked medium.

I like being in the middle.

 

Will have to mirror the same thing the 3 posters about said.

A good mix, but I do lean more towards masculine guys. I seem to have less in common with the more feminine part of the gay community, so there's that.

 

This is one of the very few "superficial" things I look at in a male. I'd feel uncomfortable with someone who was very far on either end since I most likely wouldn't be able to relate to them, so I chose "middle," or, at the very least, someone who was mostly masculine but with some feminine traits or someone with was mostly feminine but with some masculine traits.

 

I second this.

 

Can't we have no preference? Or multiple preferences?

 

Primarily masculine but slight femininity is not a drastic issue. Full feminine guys don't ever appeal to me though, it's almost a "turn off".

 

I like masculine guys, for the most part, being a masculine guy myself... It's just something that comes naturally. But not exclusively. Ilike people who are authentic

 

I like a good mixture (but I lean towards masculine guys).

 

How are masculine and feminine being defined in this context?

 

I voted Masculine. Being female, my other half needs to be masculine to complete me. Masculine men are the ones who comes on to me anyway, so I really have never had much of a choice. June

 

I like them up and down the spectrum, including multiple combinations, and preferably with some sense of fluidity. Any preference would point to the 'center', physically, and more intellectually inclined with a rebellious streak.

 

I definitely lean toward masculine guys. I think of myself as moderately masculine, and I'd like a guy who's similar. Feminine guys just aren't my cup of tea.

 

At least I'm not the only one. Haha.

I ate threads like this because it really can turn into a "masculine men of the world unite!" Post....

I'm pretty feminine. I think like a girl, I talk like a girl.... I act like a girl. Not necessarily all stereotypically.....just close. I am kind and compassionate and I think things through, especially with my emotions. I do have guy moments - I can be lazy and I am a bit of a slob.

But with either of these, I'm not a girl. I am a guy.

Maybe I just don't want to face the music that the guys I want don't want me. That does get upsetting, it's being made abundantly clear.

At the end of it,it's fascinating to see why we think the way we do. Maybe It's something traditional in my head?

 

Medium guys.

Generally, I'd like some degree of, for lack of a better word, 'androgyny' in the overall makeup of any guy I go out or am with. By that I mean a mix of 'masculinity' and 'femininity' in some combination, though I'm not looking for a particular sort [in that regard, it's more of a 'vibe' that I would appreciate.]

Perhaps because I'm a male who, as of now, does not feel especially one way or the other yet simultaneously feels I've qualities or aspects of myself that I would easily associate with one, the other or neutral.