Am I the only guy with fantasies of me being the weaker person?

Submissiveness is not unheard of in men, regardless of sexuality, even if taboo in some circles. There's a reason I'm turned on immensely by more androgynous, tomboyish, and intellectual women, though I'm also aware of the double standards and gender roles, downplaying a lot of my traits, initially.

There's nothing wrong with us, but there is something wrong with a culture that immediately pegs us as 'weaker' or 'inferior' for our natural preferences. It takes true strength to toss off the chains of hegemonic masculinity and say 'this is who I am, take it or leave it'.

 

I'm almost exclusively submissive, I just don't get any kicks out of the idea of being dominant.

 

We're culturally conditioned to be dominant, but if you aren't dominant naturally, do as you feel is right. I have no idea about the last point, however. It's perfectly natural to be submissive, so you don't need to be somebody you're not.

 

I'm not just submissive, I'm a masochist. :S I think that there's nothing wrong with it though. People have different preferences

 

I agree. I am naturally submissive.

 

Absolutely not. I have heard of the women in straight relationships wearing a strap-on and having thean on bottom. So you are not alone in this.

 

^This is me