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Old 15th Apr 2008, 06:59 PM   #1
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About two nights ago I was at my friend's house(friend1) and we were playing games and one of my friends(friend2) kept use gay terms over and over. (a little is fine by me but he was like once every 30 sec) Another one of my friends(friend3) was just like, "What is with all the remarks? You can stop them now."

Anyways my friend3 was telling me how he shouldn't have done that later when it was just me, friend1 and friend3. It made me good to know that I have people who stand up for me. (yay them)

Oh and just so you know friend2 did know I'm gay and I'm pretty sure he has no problem with it.

Just thought I would share my happy moment with you guys.
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Old 15th Apr 2008, 07:14 PM   #2
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Wow this is so cool! Friend3 is a real good friend, I can tell
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Old 15th Apr 2008, 07:37 PM   #3
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i think it really nice that friend 3 would do that
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Ahhh.... so cool!!!!
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Old 15th Apr 2008, 07:56 PM   #5
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Hearing thats gay every 30 seconds does get irritating its offensive but you have a good friend.

But i quickly get annoyed by overused words
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Wow, that's cool Just wish the people I consider family felt the same way XD, they still make gay jokes and say That's so gay, like 50 times whenever I'm over there ~.~ Eh, I told them it didn't bother me though, it just made major awkward moments the one time they were holding themselves back, rather not make people not be themselves just for me :3

Though, I'm kinda curious, did Friend2 even care that he was saying them, or did he think you were ok with them, or what? O.o
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Just do what i do, refer to the same things with 'thats straight'
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Old 16th Apr 2008, 09:03 AM   #8
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Though, I'm kinda curious, did Friend2 even care that he was saying them, or did he think you were ok with them, or what? O.o
My guess is he thought it was okay but I'm not sure.

Like I said some comments I can withstand but this was like non-stop.
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Though, I'm kinda curious, did Friend2 even care that he was saying them, or did he think you were ok with them, or what? O.o
My guess is he thought it was okay but I'm not sure.

Like I said some comments I can withstand but this was like non-stop.
Wow, you sound like I did lol, One night before I came out, they made 58 gay jokes in a hour, I went off on them. That's probably when they figured out I was gay though =P

If he continues, just remember, he may think you're ok with it, just talk to him =P
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