Would you date a porn star?

I do not judge people who are porn stars, but I would not want to date one.

 

Absolutely not. Even though I am not against porn (I'm a teenage guy :lol, I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone of that profession (when I'm old enough to date someone who would be). I'm also against the idea of an open relationship, even if it is only for business.

 

There is a thread already http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/70631-would-you-ever-date-porn-star.html but it is from 2012

I still have the same answer. I don't think I'd have a problem dating an ex pron star

 

I don't think I could do it. Yeah, no. I don't like the thought of sharing my man or woman with someone else. Whether it is their job or not. They could be a stripper, but porn star? Hell, no. The thought of someone else pleasing my partner in that way...it would hurt.

 

Y'know...for the night...:lol:


Jokes aside, why not? Just like anyone we'd have to have a bit in common, and enjoy being around each other. And there's only so many, so I highly doubt I or even anyone here will get the opportunity....but if you did, and you like them, why not?


Also may as well note for everyone not just the OP - if you even skim EC periodically, you'll notice that similar threads come up even one week after a previous one... so, don't worry about it lol.

 

I'm with Lovely. Besides, it's not like he'd be unattractive.

 

Maybe. If it will get me a few extra bucks...

 

Ex porn star... Sure, I don't care! Current porn star...I don't even share my food, so it seems unlikely, I'd want them to myself, I get REALLY possessive. I'd probably be okay with it at the beginning of the relationship, but if I really developed feelings for this person I'd slowly get pissed off by sharing.

 

I mean, it depends on how sexually obsessive the person might be. I'm assuming most porn stars are very sex centered -- which I don't like.

 

You assume that, but it's not necessarily true. I can't speak to what most porn stars "are," but for example you could also and just as easily claim that sex is their job, and therefore they view it as "just a job," and therefore if anything would end up finding sex to be rather boring considering that they do it all the time.


Not saying that's how it is, but why assume?

 

I couldn't. Knowing they bonked other people just like that. I'm kind of a prude. :X

 

Uh... No. Sorry I'm already afraid of sexual contact with anyone more experienced than me and that... I'd be wearing turtle neck sweaters with thick knit socks, a long skirt, and a chastity belt every day if I dated someone like that... I don't mind the industry mind you. I hold no prejudices against the actors I just personally would not be able to handle that.

 

Sure, why not.

 

Quite possibly, yes. Although it would be conditional on being satisfied they had safe systems of work in place that were adhered to without the complacency one often sees in other industries.

 

^ essentially this.

 

From various articles I've seen on the porn industry, there is about as much romance involved in 'doing their job' as there is in processing tax returns. Basically it's very business-like, there is a schedule to keep, and a lot of pressure.

In other words, it's a job.

There's also a good chance of a fair bit of substance abuse and other issues in some cases. Although that could be said about a lot of jobs.

I think that it would probably be something I would struggle with, and that this hypothetical person would have to both really make my heart skip a beat and be really into me as well, but I suppose it might be possible. Unlikely, but I can't simply dismiss the possibility out of hand. And presumably, they have the option of being with lots of people and would be choosing to be with me...

I suspect that the 'porn community' probably has its own set of mores and sense of community all its own since it would include people who both do this job but also those who are able to handle someone doing that job.

My 2c worth,

Todd

 

no. but id have sex with one

 

Yes. As long as I was confident there wasn't a significant risk of STD transmission. I have no problems with the idea of an open relationship, though honestly I doubt I'd be engaging in the open policy much.

 

Sure, why not? I'm with Lovely on this one. If we have plenty in common and enjoy each other's company, then yeah, but dating one just to date one I wouldn't do. I'd have to actually care about him/her. Every person on this earth is exactly that: A person. And just like anyone else, porn stars need love, too. I'd probably struggle with it at first because I get jealous easily when dating someone new, but with time, I'm sure I'd learn to accept it. If not, life goes on.