This is about sexuality I take it? Have you tried porn? It can help. Look at stuff involving men and women, and see which gets you fired up more, if any. But if you don't mind me saying, you can find the answer inside of yourself. You've come to EC, an LGBT forum, presumably because you find women attractive. So the question is, do you find men attractive? Now that won't answer all of your question, but it gives you a place to start. Oh, and welcome to EC
Keep telling yourself that you can't and you'll believe it. Code it into your brain, and it will function that way. Prevent that before it's too late! You've already made a huge leap in finding out who you are by joining, so welcome here. Exploring your emotions, and what questions you can help you a great deal, but you have to open and accepting of yourself to the possibilities. Try explaining what you can and what you're comfortable with here. Remember, there's no rush when it comes to these things. The feelings of denial, and confusion will linger for a while, but it gets easier with the right support. (*hug*)
