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Gay men and Emo's?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alexander69, May 25, 2013.

  1. Alexander69

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    Who do I see at men like emo guys so much? I find they scare the shit out of me
     
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    Why do they scare the shit out of you?
     
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    I don't understand what you're asking. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    As far as I can tell, he's asking why some guys (apparently) like emos, because he's scared of them himself.
     
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    In that case,id say..why?Emos are hot and adorable and have nothing scary on them?Besides..nobody is scary,exept zombies.
     
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    I don't find emos scary. In fact, most of the emos that I've had the chance to me and be friends with have been quite nice. :slight_smile: I would try to look past the clothes and music. We're all just people underneath it all.
     
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    Sometimes weird but not scary! And what the hell was that question? Lol
     
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    Hence my question why does he find them scary?
     
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    Emos are people too :slight_smile: They look great though, I love their hair :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Really? I think they're adorable, but I've always had a darker personality and honestly see them in the same vein as black kittens.

    You're probably just not used to diversity, especially when it involves less-than-bubbly cultures and personalities. No one is forcing you to date them.
     
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    They are people just like you and me, if you find them scary or they're not your type - then that's that. There's no need to single them out.
     
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    They are like goth and goths are like death worshipers they scare me they look so depressed and cold and tough like they do drugs and it just scare me yet I see a lot of gay men seem to like that look I don't see why?
     
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    No, emos are not goths, let people define themselves. Furthermore, goths are not death worshippers, its just a fashion and music genre. Members of many many groups do drugs and look tough, that isn't to say that they're representative of that group. You need to learn to stop judging people and groups like this.

    I can see why. Emos are cute and adorable and hot. And I have a thing for wristbands, dunno why. But anytime I see someone wearing wristbands, I have a sudden urge to date them.
     
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    Velma has something to say about making negative and hateful generalizations about a group of people:

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    I'm not judging as far as I KNWO that is what they are like so it's not judging. [​IMG]like if I saw him Id be scared becuase he looks tough and angry :O that's mostly what I mean
     
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    Sorry, but the person in that image doesn't look "tough" at all, let alone angry.
     
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    I guess that's where we differ.... I thi k he like mean and tough and angry :O
     
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    Judging is making a judgement based on evidence. What you are doing most certainly is judging. Regardless, I don't think he looks remotely angry. Kind of contemplative. But the point is, you are making a judgement about an entire group of people based on one photo. Regardless of the content of that photo, questionable as it is, you can't make a judgement about other emos based on looking at one.

    A very small percentage of gay people, or white people, or men commit violent crimes, but that doesn't mean I should assume you commit violent crimes.