how many times is too many?

Depends on the situation....

 

Personally, one.

 

Until you find yourself unable to forgive, I suppose. Mistakes happen, and they should be forgiven, but too many of them may be a sign that you're not the best fit for each other.

 

Depends on how they broke. However, you get one chance. You fuck that up, who says you won't fuck up any other chances?

The only reason I will give you two is if you are sincere about your apology for the first time you messed up.

 

Just because you forgive someone for hurting doesn't mean that you should put yourself in a position where they will have the opportunity to do it again.

I don't know your specific situation, and even if I didn't it isn't my my place to tell you who you should be with in the future. Though I would seriously ask myself if you are confident that pointlessly breaking your heart is something that he will never do again, because by staying with him, you are not only risking getting hurt again, but also wasting time and opportunities for more deserving people to be with you.

 

Yup, well when I say one, I mean they can get away with it once and get a second chance. But that's it, another strike and they're out.

 

As many times as it takes for him to realize what he's done, and how it is effecting us.

 

Not on same mistakes... and see if the change is from the heart

 

This is how I feel. 1 chance.

 

My usual approach is 'if you hurt me in the slightest way, you're out'. But I think I need to learn to be a bit more forgiving than that.